It's hard to know when helping someone is good and when it is not good.

A saying I use as a barometer is: "Helping is the sunny side of control."

If I am doing it out of guilt, or so I will look like a good person, or score brownie points with God, or I will be a schmuck if I DON'T do it - that's a sure sign to not help. Why? Because it is about ME.

Callie is at peace. As others have said, it may have been too late to do anything...and whatever there was may not have added to her quality of life. It's not your fault - you did not kill her. You are innocent.

{{{{hugs}}}}