Oh you poor thing, reading this also made me feel so bad for you and Andy,I sure hope he pulls through and don't worry kitties are so forgiving, not like us humans, who can hold grudges forever.

I understand how you feel, i accidentally shut my Lexies tail in the draw, it was a stiff draw, and she went underneath it , i did not see her do that, and I broke it, it had to be amputated, this was some years ago now and i still feel bad,but she recovered, and she still has a cute little tail.

Your story is a warning to all of us, it is something i have never given thought to, my dryer is high up on the wall but still it could happen, I will from now on be watching to make sure none of my kitties venture in there.

Please try not to beat yourself up about it, i know we all do it, but everyone knows you would never wish any harm upon your furbabies.

I am so sorry both you and Andy have to go through this, it is the most awful feeling in the pit of your stomach isn't it? and I am sad to hear your husband is of no support and only making matters worse, just know we all are here for you on PT, and hoping that Andy makes a full recovery and that meowmie can forgive herself and feel better too. Take care and thinking of you.