Richard, when my mom had her first heart attack, I had two sisters living near her, one just a few doors down, the other approximately 15 minutes away, all in PA. I lived in OH, 3 hours away, but guess who was put "in charge" to handle things and take care of her when she came home from hospital? The task always falls to the one most capable. As you say, you've been through the wars and you'll know what to do, how to do it and you'll get it done. And we all will be right there beside you in spirit every step of the way. Above all else, love your mom (I know I don't have to tell you that) and love yourself, too. Caregivers need love even more sometimes. Turn to us for support; we're here and we can take it. Keep the faythe, bud.