I love buttercream frosting, the sweeter the better. I think I've had both real and shortening cause I've had good and bad and there is a distinct difference. I prefer bakery anything. The fact that it's more expensive and less convenient is good - keeps the waistline from expanding.

If you do a bbq perhaps an invitee would be willing to do cooking so it would be less work for you?

Good luck with whatever you decide Tia!