You're not alone, sweetie..I'd be going beserk too. Of course you are beside yourself, because you're a wonderfully caring, sweet, loving person with a huge heart. Your neighbors should be thanksful as he$$ that they have the honor of knowing you.

I must add that I think your parents are super. I adore them. But, hey..look at the girl they raised. Hats off to them for sharing in your concern. Do you want an (way) older sister???