Well Mary I am sorry for you caught in the middle of this.. I have to say this = why in the Hell did this guy get another Lab after knowing he had laid to rest 2 others.. So now he doesnt want to be responsable of being with this baby at her time of need.. This is part of being a parent.. Let me guess this baby will be laid to rest & he will get over it && be right out there for another Lab.. Grrr.. Now for you Mary I have the upmost Respect for.. You are doing the emotional times with this baby.. Yes Please be with this wittle one in her time of need & help her cross over.. Keep up posted ok.. We will be there for you & this wittle baby .. Sorry you have had to miss so much work..