you know i do understand your decision, i just feel it is very sad, and i guess i am just hoping there is a better solution, please don't have you mind so set,just maybe somewhere out there , there is a better deal for Biggles,you are dealing with a situation i certainly donot envey, and because of that i respect your feelings,but by the same token, i just cannot help but be a little optimistic that maybe, just maybe, there is light at the end of the tunnel.

Whatever happens Jess, i hope the decision you make is the right one for you and Biggles,I know you are not taking this lightly,and for those who feel she is,please remember you are not living her life, I feel for all parties concerned in this awful situation,it is tragic really.