well hubby and I sat down last night and discussed the issue. We have decided that we are just no longer going to buys snacks for the kids. From now on, since I am home all day, i will put together wholesome snacks, in single serve tupperware containers. They are only allowed to have one, and if it is not finished, then the lid goes back on, and they get the same one the next time. I will be buying, bulk juices and such, no more juice boxes. Plastic cups and an ice cube will have to do! as well as water and Milk. No soda! I will have soda in the house, but it will be off limits! for mommy, and daddy, or company, and maybe only as a special treat with our permission only. Lunch box items, will only be used for that! Snacks will consist of Veggies, fruits, and homemade goodies. The kids are now going to be given chores. These chores must be completed daily. These chores will consist of cleaning bedrooms, making beds, and various small tasks. As is the rule now, all homework must be completed as soon as they are home from school. there are now going to be time limits on TV, and video games. Snacks are only to be eaten in the kitchen, at the table. No sneaking into bedrooms or Living room. same with all drinks. I am in the process of putting together achart with schedules, and the above mentioned new rules. I hope this works! I know it will take some time to get used to, but it has to be done. Things are just out of control. Thank you all for your Advise! and thank you all for letting me vent!

If you have any suggestions, to my above statements, and rules, please feel free to comment! I am always open to suggestions!