Kari it is the price us parents have to pay sooner or later, and Kari believe it or not it is a grieving process of a kind , because it is a loss, even if it is a good one if you get my meaning, i went through it when he went to the UK and it was awful, but hey i got through it, just imagine what it will be like when my youngest and only one left leaves for good.

Your day will come oneday when you have children of your own,it is inevitable, it must be harder for your mother as you are further away i think than Scott will be, he is only 2 hrs away , so that is not too bad, and even though i cannot travel a lot due to health reasons, he can always come down here, he reckons he will be down at least once a month.

I have a very special bond with Scott, because i raised him alone for ten years,so we are close.

I have to say i am sad but excited too, as i am really looking forward to meeting his special lady, and she sounds so sweet, i think we will really get on well, even though she is not especially fond of cats, one big drawback, but hey we can overcome that, if he is happy then i am happy too, there is always a sense of inner peace within a mother when their child finds their life partner.

Feel free to send me your mothers email address if she would like to chat, more than happy to