Thanks all, yes Amber does sound lovely indeed, she was worried we would hate her for taking scott away from his family, i said no way i am not loosing a son but gaining a daughter which is how i really think of it, and she was very happy.

Yes it is a good move for my boy, his new job is warehouse/purchasing supervisor, so it is a promotion and indeed lots more responsibility, which i think he is ready for, he is a capable lad, and needs the challenge.

Of course it is sad for me as well, but hey they have to spread their wings, and besides he has a lovely young lady in his life who loves him and cares for him as much as i do , so that is very comforting for a mother.

They are both going to Rarotonga for a week in october as Ambers only sister is getting married there, so that is exciting, first trip overseas for Amber,will be a nice relaxing holiday for them both.