Quote Originally Posted by Husky_mom
same here........

in mexico you dont change your last name you just add your hubbies to yours
as

Isabel Garcia de Nava (being Nava my hubbies) ("de" is like "from") but i just dont use it that way i only use my name as it is..........LOL........i´m still myself......and i dont follow etiquette either........

I really believe this is the most "civilized" way of doing it.
Anyway, I'd use your first name & his last name.