I tell people at work..and they really don't understand. They're like..."so...you meet people you don't even know?" And once I told my doctor I was going to Flordia and Utah...and he was like "oh, you're going to visit relatives?" So I explained it to him and he was like "Oh...are you SURE she is not really a man? Some pervert? You know these things do happen..." (this was even after I told him I had already met Kay the year before...)