My parents were married for over 40 years before my Dad died in March. Most of the marriage was happy although Dad's illness put a lot of strain on it during the 5 years they had to contend with Parkinson's.

My brother and I know that no one will ever take our Dad's place in our hearts or memories so see no reason why Mum shouldn't find someone else if thats what she wants. We have our own lives and families so why should she stay alone?