That hind of people always upset me so much too! It is impossible to make them listen, because they are so full of themselves . Some people I know have a lovely cat, but it is NEVER allowed to come indoors. She MUST always stay outside, no matter what the weather is like. When I mentioned that winter was coming, they just said that she always has the possibility to go and hide in the shed... . Poor girl! Then they also refuse to spay her ; they say that this is not necessary because the tomcat from next door is "done"... . Arrghhhh, stupid people!!! How about putting them outside in the garden, in the middle of an icecold snowstorm??