Laura,

While I'm not a parent (at least, not to the skin kind of kids), I was a kid much like Matt. While its really, really wonderful you want to help him, honestly, all you need to do is make it known you ARE there to listen. That's all you can do at this point.

Almost all of my friend's families were "normal" and I was the only one that had parents that acted like children. People that don't come from that type of home, can't understand the deep devistation and confusion that comes from seeing a parent completely get on with their new life.

Just be there for him. That will help him to eventually know he can talk. He'll have a lot of trust issues with women, especially sinse his mom has gone and started her own life. Its not your fault in any way, but until he can deal with it, he'll always have issues with woman.

You're very sweet to care so much about Matt and his family. He needs to see women ARE nice and reliable. Just be there...he needs that above all.

Hugs, Laura. Its nice having you back here.

Love, Kelly