Hmm I wonder how you would feel if it were your son, I have a son one year older than him, and believe me I don't think I would like him dating a woman almost the same age as myself, and that is not in these awful circumstances, I have a daughter the same age as he was when this happened to him, I cannot imagine it, it is horrific IMO, and I cannot understand anyone giving them their blessing and saying what a cute couple they make, it is beyond me, I am totally gob-smacked.