(((((Kelly))))), I'm so sorry to hear your marriage didn't work, but you're right: Sometimes it's just better to take such a step instead of living in a situation that contnued to be stressful and depressing for everyone involved.

You say you're feeling free and happy now, and I think it could be very well that this might have positive effects on your health.

But it's so sad that your cats have to be seperated. At least those with the strongest bonds will stay together, but it will be hard for them, and they'll need both you and David to deal with all the changes in their lives.

I wish you all the best!

Kirsten