Kia's grief

[ramanth]

Thank you everyone.

I'm still sad but I can see a little sun peeking thru the clouds.

I stopped by the apartment to get some more of my stuff and ended up breaking down. He comforted me and we talked and he mentioned Kruzer.

Michael had gone to the Humane Society yesterday and Kruzer was still there. The tone in his voice sounded like he was interested in adopting him.

We didn't yell and we were civil. We are taking baby steps at the moment. We both decided it would be best if we take a break to find each other. I told him I still wanted to be in his life. Helping out his buisness and such. If it was truely meant to be, then we will not be apart long.

Only time will tell.

I haven't seen Kia since Thursday morning. I called dad to let him know where I was and he said Kia was really depressed. She wouldn't come out of her crate for my mom and my dad had to coax her out.

I can't wait to see her when I get out of work.

[DoggiesAreTheBest]

Oh, Kimmy, I am so sorry to hear about how things are going. But just as everyone mentioned, Kia can help you and she will adjust to her surrounding quyicker than you think.

I hope all goes well and you and Kia will get through this. I know it!

[purrley]

Kimmy - I just have this feeling that everything will work out for you and Mike in the long run. Relationships are so very difficult and sometimes it takes a break up or a separation to realize how important you are to each other. In the meantime Kia obviously needs you and she's gotta be #1, just like a child. Bless Ya!!!!

[ramanth]

You know...I didn't realize how much I missed my cats until that Wednesday.

I was home on the couch crying when Scooter jumped up in my lap and turned on his little motor. He'd nudge my face and act so silly I couldn't help but smile.

I love my 5 mini motor boats.

[purrley]

I can;t tell ya how many times my cats have come to the rescue when I was feeling really down about something. They're such great therapy for the blues. My babies have seen me through some really rough times - thank God for them!!!!!

[Stenograsaurus]

You know, I didn't even think of Michael getting Kruzer. I just figured since you were not in the apartment and you no longer had the one animal per apartment rule that maybe you could get Kruzer to help you through the grieving process (not that Kia isn't enough). I'm glad you guys are being so civil. As you said, if it was meant to be, it will be. I'm thinking of you.

[ramanth]

I would Stenograsaurus, but my parents are cat people. If I brought a second dog into the home, that would be a no no. They were shocked that I took Kia. They thought Michael was going to keep her.

Not that they don't love her, but they are trying to get used to a 50 lb. dog taking over their house.

Two 50 lb. dogs would be too much for them.

[jackiesdaisy1935]

I'm very sorry to hear about your breakup, but right now you must think of what is best for you and Kia. Just take your time and think about what you want to do with your life and Kia will adjust. Thank goodness you have your family to fall back on for support and of course everyone here at Pet Talk. Time and patience heals all.
Jackie