Girl or Guy friends?

[GoldenRetrLuver]

I have mostly guy friends. I'm not a "girly girl", and I'm really not into "girl talk" or talking on the phone either. But, I do have girl friends. One of my guy friends is gay and he's just a BLAST to hang out with! That's probably one of the few things I like about my high school...they don't discriminate whether you're gay or not.

[G.P.girl]

Originally posted by Soledad
I gotta say, the only people I really make a point to steer clear of are the chicks who say "I don't like having female friends." In my experience that has been a big, giant, red flag for "I'm really insecure around females and must have male attention with zero competition."

No thank you!

hmmmmmm....is that a hint? i like girlsfriendsjust i don't like cat fights and stuff but sometimes i get lonely for girltalk and i do have girlfreinds just i don't hang around them that much.

I have a few gay men friends and I absolutely LOVE to hang out with them. We have such a good time, and they are great friends.

that's so tru i think it's because they have the qualities of a guy but there's not that sexual tension thats usually there. maybe i just kow they are alot of fun!

[CathyBogart]

I'm a girl with mostly guy friends. I've found in the past that something almost always happens between myself and any girl friend that I get close to. (I.E. They randomly go psychotic and shove me out of their life over something trivial_

I have a few long-standing female friends, and I'm open to making more, I just find that us gamer/action movie/geek/car-loving/shopping-hating girls maky guy friends more easily.

Oh, and it has nothing to do with "male attention". My friends are just that - Friends. We watch TV, play first person shooter games, blow each other up, and go to Hockey games. (Since my fiancee hates sports)

[Tonya]

I have both, but my guy friends tend to stick around longer.

[Kfamr]

I have girl and guy friends. Only two of my girl friends I can *really* trust though -- I love them all, but those two are the ones I know fore sure won't blab anything out.

[tikeyas_mom]

well I have alot of aquatences, mostly gurls, but some guys too.

I only have a few close friends snd they are all gurls. I didnt vote. .. I didnt know what to choose lol

[CatDad]

Originally posted by Dogz
I like hanging out with both.

I like this answer.

I thought back and really I don't have a predomince of either girl or guy friends. I generally hang out with people that I connect with in some way. If that is a girl or guy doesn't really matter to me. That being said I am sure that I have more of one then the other, I mean it can't be completly equal. It just does not matter to me.

Sorry, guess I am just a little wierd that way.

[Dogz]

Originally posted by CatDad


Sorry, guess I am just a little wierd that way.

I guess I'm weird too.

[Foam]

Both. I have many guy friends, and many girl friends. I think I have a bit more guy friends though, because I meet them through sports. =)

Forgot to add that I'm NO girly girl. I hate talking on the phone, and going shopping with people other than my mom or sisters.
I would much rather go to the basketball court on a Friday night with a true competator friend (girl or guy, doesn't matter) and get all sweaty and dirty. =P Only problem is that none of my best girl friends play sports. It's always my guy friends, and they all play basketball! Wa hoo. =)

[CathyBogart]

That's another thing I can't stand...talking on the phone! My calls tend to consist of: "Where are you?" "Want to do something?" "okay".

Why do people think I want to hear them ramble at me over the phone when I'm going to see them the next day anyways?

[popcornbird]

I don't like talking on the phone. Not that much anyway. My friends call me, and want to blabber for hours..........but me...........yes.......no........um.............*t hinking what to say*...........I have to go........bye. LOL! I just can't seem to think of anything to say! Occasionally we will have a long conversation if I'm in a real talking mood, but if I'm not..........I just cannot think of anything to say! It gets frustrating, because they want to talk, and I *want* to talk too.........but when there's nothing say and it gets pointless, I want to hang up and feel rude to say so, so I keep listening to the friend until she eventually gets bored and says SHE has to go. *sigh* When will I learn to talk on the phone?

I like talking to friends in person..........or on MSN IM. On the phone, I run out of things to say. Chatting on the internet...........somehow I keep going.....for hours at a time. When my friends come over, I talk to them a lot as well. I just can't manage to keep talking on the phone though. I guess that's just me.

[binka_nugget]

I prefer hanging out with guy friends but I have more girl friends. However, if the girl isn't "girly" like most are at my age, then that'd be fine as well. I just don't care for makeup, phone calls, talking about boys and all that stuff. Most of my close girl friends aren't girly so we get along really well. We burp, double dip and do all that stuff together lol.

[GoldenRetrLuver]

Originally posted by binka_nugget
We burp, double dip and do all that stuff together lol.

LMAO! You don't know how hard I laughed when I read that!
I can't seem to talk on the phone either....it's just...not me. I prefer chatting online or talking in person. The only person I will *stand* talking on the phone with is one of girl friends. She's a "dog nut" like me, so we get along.

[Foam]

Heheheh. I can't talk when someone is over at my house...especially girls! If a guy is over, I can talk no problems, but if it's a girl...neh. =P

[iceyshiver21]

My friends-

Female- Jenny(whose is a guy, just lacking thee essentails), and kels (manly but not completly a guy)

Male- Darren, Boggie, Shawn, Tweeky, Austin, Aaron, justin, ross, scotty, scott, alex, Robbie, josh, jace, jared, joshua, chad, travis, vince, nate, sqweek, derek, jermey, mike, joel, chet, and steve.

My online friends tend to be more on the female side though.

I used to have more female friends but I kinda of lost all my good female friends around 8th not that I had many but when they got to high school we kinda "seperated", we still talk but just not as much.

The only color we paint our nails is black, including some of the guys, we sit around at each others basments playing car games(they rock), we are incerdibly weird, such as murdering shawdows with flashlights, waterfights, name plants in austins house, have invisable friends, sopport each other, and cry with each other, and host the next best thing to the westling thats real. The thing I love about guys is that they always smell so good!!

Austin and me(we were playing dodge ball with a basketball)-
http://www.geocities.com/keet0021/DSC00278.JPG


Me and Darren(after our burping contest)-
http://www.geocities.com/keet021/darrenandme.jpg

Those two are like my brothers.