SAS...I feel your pain!

[2kitties]

Well, yes, but I don't dwell on that. I'm the smart one, he's just the big one.

(click on my www to see that pic again.)

[catland]

Dear cousin Edwina,

I feel your pain. I had babies three years ago. I nursed them, cared for them, weaned them, and then sent them on their way. But Joxer refuses to leave. Every day I remind him that he is a grown boy and its time to stop living with his Mom. Does he listen? No! After all that I have done for him this is the thanks that I get.

It also doesn't help that the humans seem to like him. I think that encourages him.

I really wish he would leave. I loved him as a kitten but now I wish he would move away and just send postcards.

Yours,
Cousin Jan

[2kitties]

*uncontrollable laughter!*

[krazyaboutkatz]

I agree with everyone. You must give them more time to adjust. Storm still chases Cirrus and terrorizes him and he's lived here for almost 5 months now yet Storm gets along very well with Sky and he's only been here for about 2 months. I've learned to accept the fact that Storm and Cirrus will probably never be friends but will only tolerate each other. At least Sunny, Cirrus, and Sky all get along with each other and Sunny is the favorite of all 3 cats.

[Ally Cat's Mommy]

Originally posted by catland

I really wish he would leave. I loved him as a kitten but now I wish he would move away and just send postcards.

Yours,
Cousin Jan

ROFLMAO

[gini]

Originally posted by krazyaboutkatz
and Sunny is the favorite of all 3 cats.

Tracey, of course Sunny would be the favorite.........he is ORANGE!

Love, Rascal

[sasvermont]

Bad....that's what.....

I don't have the energy to tangle with cats that hate each other. Life can be better in another household.

I spoke with the behaviorist yesterday, to cancel the appointment if necessary, since Ti will be going to a new home, hopefully soon. She said that she WOULD have asked to have Miley and Ti in the same room during her visit! And that, since Ti was being rehomed, there was no point in evaluating him now and that he would probably be fine in the new home. It was just a bad fit. She was basing this on the fact that Ti and Juni are fine together.

All that said, maybe Eddie is not a good fit for Ms. Winny.

Maybe Winny would do better if Eddie smelled like the blonde one.....why not put your perfume on him Sara? Have you tried that?

Ti has to do some butt smelling....so you might want to apply your scent to both ends! Give it a try. It might confuse the hell out of Winny girl.

What the hell do I know?

Keep us posted!

SAS and her three brats!

[catmandu]

Princess , my older Cat still doesnt like the Other Cats , but she isnt agressive! Actually she runs away! But she will never get used to the other cats , NEVER!

[catland]

Originally posted by sasvermont

Ti has to do some butt smelling....so you might want to apply your scent to both ends! Give it a try. It might confuse the hell out of Winny girl.

Uh - SAS, the Feliway is for the kitties, not for you.

[Edwina's Secretary]

I put aluminium foil on the dining room floor (between the pee stains ) to discourage anymore. This morning I find someone has peed.....on the aluminum foil heavy sigh....

[Cinder & Smoke]

Originally posted by Edwina's Secretary
... This morning I find someone has peed...
..on the aluminum foil

**heavy sigh**...

OMG!

Hate to suggest this (it will make for a strange addition
to the dining room decor)...

But others have suggested that when the kids "eliminate" in
the wrong places - it sometimes helps if you place a proper
receptacle (read Litter Box) in that location (read Dining Room).

With luck, you'll be able to slowly relocate it
to under the breakfront or the china cabinet.

Eddie ~
It better not be *YOU*!!

[Tubby & Peanut's Mom]

Originally posted by Cinder & Smoke

Eddie ~
It better not be *YOU*!!

I second that, although no matter who it is it's bad enough.

Tubby once took to peeing on my dad's side of the bed. My dad and Tubby didn't get along to good, and I think this was Tubby's way of showing exactly what he thought of my dad - but it most certainly wasn't a good idea! I was told "one more time and that cat is gone!" So my mom put a big heavy sheet of plastic on my dad's side of the bed. Thinking 1) Tubby won't like the feel of the plastic and will stay off, and 2) even if he does still pee, it won't be able to soak into the bed. The good news is that from that day forward Tubby never peed on the bed again - or anywhere else except the litter box for that matter.

So, like Phred says, it might not match the decor, but for the time being, to hopefully help solve the problem, maybe you could cover the entire dining room floor with a piece of heavy plastic. I'm not really sure, but I think you can get big sheets of plastic at Home Depot, or a hardware store. That way, even if whoever is doing it continues, at least it won't soak into the carpeting. And maybe, possibly, like Phred says, put a litter box there also, so whoever is doing it might get the hint, and hopefully doesn't decide to move to the living room or elsewhere.

[auggie]

Originally posted by Cinder & Smoke
OMG!

Hate to suggest this (it will make for a strange addition
to the dining room decor)...

But others have suggested that when the kids "eliminate" in
the wrong places - it sometimes helps if you place a proper
receptacle (read Litter Box) in that location (read Dining Room).

With luck, you'll be able to slowly relocate it
to under the breakfront or the china cabinet.

Eddie ~
It better not be *YOU*!!

When I first read this, I thought you were suggesting putting the litter box on the dinning room table. ( after looking at Eddie's picture on the table)
Tubby and Peanut's Mom, why do I get the feeling that Edwina's Secretary is thinking that Tubby and Peanut need a brother?

[carole]

I have the same problem with Ash , he is just a mean grumpy cat , Lexie on the otherhand trie's so hard to be his friend, she will roll over and look cute at him, and she talk's to him all the time, he either glares at her or ignore's her.

Like this morning for instance, she was just walking past him, minding her own business and he goe's and whack's her one, he really annoy's me, however it is not all that bad, it is just I feel Lexie is lonely for cat company, if only he were of a different nature, it sadden's me, but at least it is tolerable not like with SAS and her TI, so have to count our blessing's really.

Strange thing is on occasion they sleep on the same bed, only a short distance apart, and I thought I caught Ash kinda playing with her outside, we live in HOPE.