Giving Notice to Friends

[JenBKR]

Wow Nicole, I don't really know what was going on there but I do know that you have had at least one poster on here harrassing you. I have always found you to be very sweet and helpful. ((((hugs)))) I don't know what's going on here but I hope you will be able to get through it all and stay with us. I don't think that 'running' is a sign of guilt, more like turning the other cheek. Just stick with the people who know the real you and care for you.

[shepgirl]

There are always 3 sides to every story.

The people hearing and reading things, the people believing those things and in the middle is the truth.

No one googled Nicole's name, she has a website because she bred a dog and she herself posted the name of her website on the internet.
That becomes public knowledge to anyone interested in browsing it.

I too feel that slinking away points to guilt. If someone is innocent of the things posted, why run? Why even care? Our lives don't revolve around the internet, most people browse around to destress from everyday routine.

Something I always heard as I grew up - "Where there's smoke, there's fire".

[Daisy and Delilah]

Here's another person that's totally confused. Was this all done by people on Pet Talk? If not, why bother posting it?
Nicole, if you need help because of someone on this board, contact Karen or Paul. They can help. Best of luck to you.

[shais_mom]

No one googled Nicole's name,

how do you know that?

[Grace]

If they say lies about you, just walk away. They can only get under your skin if you let them. Just go on and be happy in your life...you know who you are, you know what's real in your life, you know what makes you happy and what you live for. Just walk a way, don't look back, and breathe a little deeper knowing that they don't have the power to make you unhappy.

I don't know what all is going on here - or was it somewhere else? Whatever. I agree with Cookiebaker - especially the sentence I put in bold.

[sparks19]

Again I have to disagree...

If someone accuses you of beating your children it's not a matter of just letting them get under your skin. this could cause a lot of legal hassles for the parents, CPS getting involved in a situation that they aren't even needed (which then takes them away from REAL cases of abuse)...

Something like this can very easily and very quickly go from "He said she said" to an investigation with little to NO proof. Happens all the time.

[Catty1]

The people hearing and reading things, the people believing those things and in the middle is the truth.

Remember the fourth side - the side of the person being attacked.

[K9soul]

I, for one, hope Nicole can finally walk away from all this no matter what accusations are out there. If some people want to see it as "running" that's their choice. This has all gone on for a long time across multiple forums and I've seen so many weird things go on and be said that it makes my head spin. Part the problem IS that Nicole kept fighting back and trying to disprove things when they came up and it just made it go on and on. It seems to me someone saying she's "running" is just trying to bait her back again. I just hope she has the fortitude to ignore it this time. It's best for everyone for all of this to just STOP. It's not the whole world's business what goes on with Nicole and her enemies. I think it just confused people much more by posting the emails in the OP and gave opportunity yet again for people to question her integrity.

[cassiesmom]

I too, have no idea who did this to you and what happened but I'm sorry.
Please take care.

That is true for me as well,
Elyse

[anna_66]

I am very sorry to hear that this is happening to you Nicole.

Not sure why people think it's their right to get into other
peoples business.

Lots of hugs to you.
Anna

[Alysser]

I do not know you but running is a sign of guilt in most cases? Where are your children now? Scarey, fishy situation, shame!

Exactly, you don't know Nicole. Guilt is not a sign of running either, I can't believe you're believing this crap even when you don't know her.

[shepgirl]

how do you know that?

Nicole posted her website herself on a site with puppies for sale. She bred Sheena and has a wesite, anyone is free to google it. Nothing wrong with that.
As for googling the name Nicole you would come up with nothing. You have to have some kind of accomplishment under your belt to make the google press. Be it a singer, a doctor, a writer, whatever.

[jennielynn1970]

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As for googling the name Nicole you would come up with nothing. You have to have some kind of accomplishment under your belt to make the google press. Be it a singer, a doctor, a writer, whatever.

No you don't. I can type in Nicole and Sheena, and it brings up a thread about her and Sheena on another site. I just tried it.

You don't need to be accomplished, famous or whatever to come up on a Google search. Heck, I've googled guys I've dated just to make sure they weren't ax murderers.

[sparks19]

LOL I will admit it....

I googled myself once.

I am no one special. Not famous for anything.

And yet there I was on a webpage that gave me credit for taking VERY AMATEUR pictures for a local hockey game lol.

Ya... you don't have to be famous. if your name is on the web... you will come up in a google search.

[shais_mom]

LOL I will admit it....

I googled myself once.

I am no one special. Not famous for anything.

And yet there I was on a webpage that gave me credit for taking VERY AMATEUR pictures for a local hockey game lol.

Ya... you don't have to be famous. if your name is on the web... you will come up in a google search.

exactly -
you don't have to be famous or anything -
I've googled myself as well and threads for PT came up.

For Shepgirl to say no one googled Nicole is a pretty vague statement. B/c quite simply - she CAN NOT know that. period.