My Friend Killed Herself

[sandragonfly]

I've been slacking on posts..

for second time in two years, my good friend killed herself last wednesday, two days after her 36th birthday.. she was my favorite babysitter and we became "sisters" after I left my parents. we went camping and did a lot together when I was in california. we talk over the phone every other two or so months, I loved hearing about her three kids, pets and their activities.. I don't believe this.

not a long ago I posted about missing my heroic grandfather ... feeling so depressed ever as much as I let myself go..

[CountryWolf07]

You are in my thoughts..

Such a tragedy.

[borzoimom]

Oh Dear Lord- in my prayers..

[My Peanuts]

I;m so sorry Gina. You will be in my thoughts.

[cassiesmom]

I;m so sorry Gina. You will be in my thoughts.

Mine too, Gina.

[sandragonfly]

I thought she loved me very much too.. there must be something not enough I could have done for her.

[IRescue452]

I'm sorry to hear this, you'll be in my thoughts

[Queen of Poop]

Oh Gina I am so very sorry. Hugs and prayers to you to help you thru this. Prayers for her family that they can manage thru this oh so difficult time.

[Catty1]

{{{{hugs}}}}

Prayers for you, and for your friend's family and children. I hope no one blames themselves.

[Lobodeb]

Oh no, Gina! This is terrible! I'm so sorry to be reading this.

Please, please, I can't emphasize this enough, please get help to deal with the pain of losing someone to suicide. The pain is like nothing I've ever felt and had it not been for the support group I found, I don't know how I would have coped, especially since I was pregnant.

I'm here if you need help. Please don't go this alone.

You, your friend and her family are in my prayers.

[Miss Z]

Gina, I am so sorry. This is tragic news.

[Catty1]

I thought she loved me very much too.. there must be something not enough I could have done for her.

Everyone who she loved and who loved her will be thinking this...but blaming yourselves isn't right. There is nothing you could have done...and I have a feeling she would tell you that herself, if she could.

{{{{hugs}}}}, all you need, just ask

[applesmom]

I'm sorry for your loss.

Here is a link to a website that might be helpful. It's free and open to anyone who has suffered the loss of a loved one.

Grief healing discussions

[dukedogsmom]

I'm so very sorry. Please do get some help to deal with this. Life can sometimes be overwhelming and we all need help. I hope the family can get through this tough time too.

[persianmom]

You are in my prayers