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    Am I justified here?

    Ok, a little background:

    My ex roomate has a cat that is constantly getting beat up by the other cats and by idiot people that don't like her. She isn't getting much food because of the other cats and has developed *Although I've never seen it* a peeing problem. She isn't paid attention to nearly as much as the other two cats in the house and is CONSTANTLY being thrown outside. *she isn't declawed I don't think, thank God* This cat basically became mine when I was living there *because me and the hubby were the only people that gave her attention* and now since I've managed to figure out the pet clause on the lease in my apartment, I'm ready to house a kitty, specifically that kitty. Squirt is a runt cat, a maine coon but she can't be any hevier than ten pounds. That is awfully small isn't it? She also drools unitentionaly, I think due to brain damage. She has ear mites I know for sure and a possible Urinary infection. Sigh, I know that adopting this cat is going to cost me an arm and a leg. However I think its well worth it to get her out of that horrid situation and into a home where she can be loved. No one at the house she is at now even likes Squirt. My ex roomates kids pick on her, the other cats pick on her, the lady herself ignores her...grrrrrrr. Of course they say that Squirt pees all over EVERYTHING *she never ONCE peed on any of mine or Johns *my hubby* things though, the other cats did...in front of us!* and her drooling makes it so no one wants to pet her. Good greif its CAT DROOL it isnt going to kill you. And even if Squirt has a peeing problem Im more than willing to take her to a vet to see if its a urinary tract issue or something.


    What it comes down to is two questions. 1 am I justified in being really POed at these people? and 2 am I justified in basically going in and comendeering the cat? I am going to ask nicely first and if the lady is being stubborn about it I think I might stage it so the cat just "wanders off". She is always being let outside, and that IS a hevily populated neighborhood with lots of dogs...
    And if the Squirt goes missing I know that these people really won't care. They'll boo hoo about it for maybe an hour and then just move on. *Squirt has run off before, I was worried sick but would anyone look for her? nooooo of course not. * Now if it was one of thier other two cats they would have a huge fit. Ugh

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    I think Squirt needs you tremendously and yes you should be PO'd at these people! If you bring little Squirt into your home I bet you she will thrive on the good care you will give her.
    Catnap her...whatever it takes...she needs a good home.
    Good Luck!

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    Take her asap, I'm sure she'll stop weeing when she gets proper love & care.


    Drooling could be a sign of dental problems, ask your vet to check this when you adopt her

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    Thats a good idea PIF, thank you! I recall though that when she was born she wasn't breathing...but she pulled though! Could that have stunted her growth and caused the drooling issue too?

    And Nibblets, if the lady doesn't cooperate, I AM going to catnap Squirt

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    YES....JUSTIFIED! Congratulations early on your new kitty.

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    Take Squirt!!! and YES you are justified in being mad at those people.
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    Poor kitti(es)! It sounds as if these people don't have a clue about cats. Yes, you should definately take that kitty, she'll be far better off in your home. You should also have her checked at the vets, UTI can be a serious matter, and she definately needs to be treated for the earmites!!

    If you can get any leaflets about cats care, I think it's a good idea to give them to these people. Or print some articles from the net.

    Best of luck with her!



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    You should definitely take Squirt home with you. Those people should not have her; they are not worthy of a cat, let alone one as special as her.

    A word of caution though if you ask to take her and then she disappears if they say no. They sound like they aren't the brightest of bulbs, but even a dimwit can put two and two together and trace it back to you. That could cause a host of legal issues that no one wants to deal with.

    May I suggest, if they owner is initially reluctant, to offer her money to buy the cat from her. I agree you shouldn't have to buy her but the law is what it is and the money might be the encouragement she needs.

    I wish you the best of luck in this endeavor and hope to see pics of Squirt relaxing in your home in the near future.
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    You're justifiably angry! Don't even bother to ask... take her! How are they to know its you who took her? Will they ever come to your new home and visit? If you never plan on sharing anything with these people again, just leave her out one night, and scoop her up on your way to the car.

    From what you've said, those people are vicious and might say no just to be mean! And then they'd think its funny!

    That is so wonderful that you to decided to keep her and make a happy home for her!

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    You know Maresche, that is a good thing to concider. Hopefully the roumor I heard was true in that they are planing to take her to the shelter anyway if they take her to the shelter after saying no to me though, Im going to be reeeeeeallly ticked off...although at least if Im paying the shelter an adoption fee it will go to help other kittes and puppies instead of lining an idiots pocket.

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    Oh, if they are planning to take her to a shelter anyway, I agree with Catnapper, just take Squirt. The fools will probably consider it a blessing and it will be, for Squirt.
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    Originally posted by DJFyrewolf36
    You know Maresche, that is a good thing to concider. Hopefully the roumor I heard was true in that they are planing to take her to the shelter anyway if they take her to the shelter after saying no to me though, Im going to be reeeeeeallly ticked off...although at least if Im paying the shelter an adoption fee it will go to help other kittes and puppies instead of lining an idiots pocket.
    Sounds like these people are not too bright to begin with. Although they do sound mean and devious. My guess is if you ask to take the cat, they are going to be mean and say "no". I'm kind a leaning towards the cat-nap theory. Just make sure they don't see you

    Good luck, and post some pictures when its all done and over with.
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    I agree with almost everyone here -- take her! A mini-coon, eh? She sounds cute and will probably turn into a lovely cat with the proper care. Do keep us posted on your progress and pics if/when you can.

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    Go for it ... before it's too late for Squirt!
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    Take Squirt, and give her your love quickly. Poor thing needs you ASAP it sounds like. You will be doing this cat a huge favor and giving her the loving home she deserves. Oh and you have every right to be angry with this family.
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