Amy has given you great advice. I'm no expert, but I can tell you what we did each time.
Kito was first--he was the boss then, and still is. Everyone knows that and respects him.
When we got Abbey, we had her for a "trial" for a weekend. We brought her home on a Friday night, and introduced them that evening outside on leashes. Kito was less than thrilled. We've since learned that if he's going to snap or growl or anything towards another dog or person, it's when he's on his leash--so instantly I thought we were making a mistake. We muzzled him so they could do the introductory sniffing, and that was ok. We took off the muzzle, and he growled at her again.
For sleeping, he stayed in his usual spot, on our bed, and she slept in a crate. The next morning, I was determined to get them to love each other. We had put away all toys, but I got out a rope toy, and gave each of them an end--they started tugging and playing, and we were good from then on. There were a few squabbles, but mostly over bones, so they don't get them anymore.
Riley was just a pup, and I just sort of let him loose in the house. Abbey and Kito chased him around a bit, they all wore each other out, and he was accepted.
Jada was no problem either. She wasn't a pup, but we did the same thing with her--just brought her in to see the reactions. Kito still hasn't warmed up to her, but there haven't been any major battles other than when the girls were ironing out some differences.
I would make sure to put away any toys that your kids may be possesive of, make sure any jealousy issues are taken care of (food, treats, etc.) and relax.
I don't know if this is true or not, but my parent's vet told them that their older dog actually knows when dogs are visiting, not staying. They had asked, because I was worried about bringing my dogs there since he is older and can't take a lot, and that's what they were told--Max seems ok with them when they're there, so I guess you can take that however you want.
I'm sure everything will go well--I'd love to see pictures when the visit happens
Emily, Kito, Abbey, Riley, and Jada
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