What do you do??? I get so upset to hear the first words out of people's mouths "they are fat". I would never say something like that to anyone else about their dogs!!!

But this is what poor Lilly endures, and the others, when my family sees them. We work diligently to keep their weight down. I know Lilly weighs too much. Heck, I weigh too much too!! But how do you say to people that you love, and you know that mean well, "shut up about the weight, will you??". The worst is my own parents, which led me to this post in the first place....how do I ask them politely to stop saying this? Or do I just ignore them???