poor Charlie!

[marysmerrycats]

he is always looking at me with those big eyes, mr big eyes, like whatcha gonna do?!, and is ready to run. I don't know why he still does this after almost a year with me, the others don't, and he will cuddle with me sometimes. its just his personality I guess, he's a true scaredy cat! anyway, I know I shouldnt have, but tonight I , playfully, pretended like oh Charlie I'm going to get you and he took off under the coffee table, I have a blanket over the top of it, I do that at times to make a tent for them to play in, they love it. I just couldn't resist. and there he goes, running! that little body with the long fur! it was actually funny!
its just that, everytime I go anywhere, there he is, waiting to see where I go then he gets in front of me, then he runs like IM after HIM! how to make a cat understand, if you don't walk in front of me I cant be after you!
how many of you have neurotic cats too? I really do need to get that new pkg of feliway plugged in, he was doing much better with it.

I feel bad, all the cats, except for him and Louise, I think they all realize that I love them, they know when I go up to them that they will be petted, and they wait for that.

[PayItForward]

I find our most standoffish cat Milly, likes to have alone time with us.

I.e. If I find her in our bedroom alone, she is more likely to stay around and get cuddles and she purrs more.

Could you take Charlie to another room to give him a couple of private one on one cuddles ?

[marysmerrycats]

no that wouldnot work. but he will jump up to my lap when he wants that

its just that Louise and Charlie, they run from me, but they are running AHEAD of me, if they would not do that I would not be
"after" them! oh well..cats!