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    Ash update....

    Just thought i would stop by and tell you how old Ashey boy is doing.

    Since his diagnosis of CRF two months ago,things have been very up and down for my ole fella, he has lost a dramatic amount of weight ,he is a shadow of his former self, getting him to eat is a real mission and takes time and effort, well worth it i might add, i think we have tried almost every cat food available almost, one day he will love one particular food , the next day he does not even want to know about it, some days he eats well, others hardly at all, enough to feed a mouse really.

    I realise this is all part of his condition but it saddens me and fustrates me and upsets me to see him like this.

    He was a large rather chubby old fella before, and he weighed in at 6.7kgs which was a tad overweight, he came down to 5.2,which was the weigh in at the vets for the dental, and now he is my lightest cat weighing in at 4.4, i can hardly believe he weighs so little, he is a bag of bones and so frail and fragile now compared to this large stature cat i used to have.

    On the brighter side, i really believe his medication is helping him and keeping him going, he also hardly vomits these days, only occasionally, so even though he eats little he is keeping it down mostly,and since the dental he eats very slowly and chews his food properly, he used to scoff it down so quickly and usually that resulted in him bringing it up again.

    So all in all there is some improvement, but of course some decline which is to be expected, i don't know how long my old boy will be with us, but we are making the most of it,he has even become much more placid natured and cuddly compared to what he used to be.

    He has developed more of a bond with my daughter Melissa, spending every night with her on her bed,she loves Ash very much and was the one who at eight years old found him and asked me if we could keep him,sad in some ways as she is going to be very upset when his time comes as we all are.

    Melissa has said if we ever want to go away for a night she will pill Ash and make sure he eats, she say's no way is he ever going in a cattery, i thought that was quite sweet, although pilling him would be very difficult for her indeed.

    Well guess who is upstairs at the moment visiting me, my old Ash, his ears must be burning lol.

    Anyhow that is about it really, just keep those positive thoughts going for my dear boy please, would appreciate it very much, thanks again for listening to me prattle on.

    p.s i must add the pilling is going well now, practice makes perfect, well almost, Ash seems more resigned to the fact,no matter what ,those awful owners of his are going to stick that pill down his throat, no matter what he trys,so all in all a much easier task, with less stress on kitty and us,phew thank goodness.
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    RIP my beautiful Ash,your pawprints are forever in my heart, love and miss you so much my big boy. ❤️❤️

    RIP my sweet gorgeous girl Ellie-Mae, a little battler to the end, you will never ever be forgotten, your little soul is forever in my heart, my thoughts, my memories, my love for you will never die, Love you my darling little precious girl.❤️❤️

    RIP our sweet Nikita taken suddenly ,way too soon ,you were a special girl we loved you so much ,miss you ❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Lexie, 15 years of unconditional love you gave us, we loved you so much, and miss you more than words can say.❤️❤️

    RIP beautiful Evee Ray Skye ,my life will never be the same with out you ,I loved you so much, I will never forget you ,miss you my darling .❤️❤️

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    Carole, I'm so sorry to hear about Ash's condition. Here are alot of Pittsburgh prayers and thoughts and of course {{{{Hugs}}}} coming to you and good wishes to your family. I'm happy to hear that Melissa wants to take on the responsibily of pilling Ash. It shows that she's a grown up.

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    Thanks my friend, got the old boy to eat reasonably well yesterday,but it sure is a battle , i am sure many others can sympathize who have CRF kitties,yes Melissa is a pretty responsible young lady,she will only pill him if we decided to go away for night,but i am not planning that in the near future,and i know how difficult a task it is, takes two of us to do it,but the thought that she wants to take on his care is nice isn't it?
    Furangels only lent.
    RIP my gorgeous Sooti, taken from us far too young, we miss your beautiful face and purssonality,take care of Ash for us, love you xx000❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Ash,your pawprints are forever in my heart, love and miss you so much my big boy. ❤️❤️

    RIP my sweet gorgeous girl Ellie-Mae, a little battler to the end, you will never ever be forgotten, your little soul is forever in my heart, my thoughts, my memories, my love for you will never die, Love you my darling little precious girl.❤️❤️

    RIP our sweet Nikita taken suddenly ,way too soon ,you were a special girl we loved you so much ,miss you ❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Lexie, 15 years of unconditional love you gave us, we loved you so much, and miss you more than words can say.❤️❤️

    RIP beautiful Evee Ray Skye ,my life will never be the same with out you ,I loved you so much, I will never forget you ,miss you my darling .❤️❤️

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    Thanks for this update on you & Ash!! What a lucky boy he is, having such caring & loving humans taking care of him!!
    I miss you enormously Sydney, Maya, Inka & Zazou Be happy there at the Rainbow Bridge

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    Oh, I'm so sorry. Hugs to you and Melissa and gentle pets to Ash. And lots of prayers for you all. God bless you all.

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    Sounds like Ash is on her way to a full recovery. Hugs and kisses to you both.


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    Donna my friend, are you not getting enough sleep lately,lol Ash is a boy and sorry but there is no recovery with Chronic renal failure, my dear ole fella is dying, but i am doing the best to keep him alive and comfortable for as long as he has left.

    He is not eating at all well today, bad day again,i am getting very concerned at his lack of appetite, his medication is supposed to improve that, but it does not seem to be doing much, he has good days where he will eat quite a lot, and others where he will eat barely anything at all,i have tried nearly every food on the market, one day he will love that particular food,the next he won't touch it.

    Oh well i knew it was not going to be easy, but it is worrying watching him fade away like this,might ring the vet for some advice .
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    RIP my gorgeous Sooti, taken from us far too young, we miss your beautiful face and purssonality,take care of Ash for us, love you xx000❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Ash,your pawprints are forever in my heart, love and miss you so much my big boy. ❤️❤️

    RIP my sweet gorgeous girl Ellie-Mae, a little battler to the end, you will never ever be forgotten, your little soul is forever in my heart, my thoughts, my memories, my love for you will never die, Love you my darling little precious girl.❤️❤️

    RIP our sweet Nikita taken suddenly ,way too soon ,you were a special girl we loved you so much ,miss you ❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Lexie, 15 years of unconditional love you gave us, we loved you so much, and miss you more than words can say.❤️❤️

    RIP beautiful Evee Ray Skye ,my life will never be the same with out you ,I loved you so much, I will never forget you ,miss you my darling .❤️❤️

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    Oh, Carole. Pittsburgh prayers are continuing for Ash to be as comfortable as he can be for his time left. I did the same thing for Thai as old age set in on her. I made her very comfortable, but she got really feeble at the end and my heart broke when I felt she'll be happier at the Bridge. I pray that you won't have to make that decision for him soon. {{{{HUGS}}}} to Ash and Marigold has her paws crossed for him, too.

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    Thank you for your kind words of comfort my dear friend, i made a decision when he was diagnosed, that i would provide him with the best care and comfort to the end, and that meant affording his medication every month, which i knew would prolong his life and make him more comfortable, however i did decide then and there that i would not prolong his life to the point he was miserable or suffering.

    So far he is not in the category in my opinion, there is still plenty of life and spark in the old boy yet, he still will run up the stairs and tree and play on the stairwell from time to time, it is just when he has a bad day of not eating i worry, but i also know that you have to take each day as it comes, and that tomorrow he might have picked up and be a much happier boy,he is just a bag of bones now, he used to be such a big strong large hefty boy, it is sad to see his decline, sure he needed to loose a few pounds in those days, but now he needs to gain some or at least maintain.

    I am sure it is far from his time yet David, but yes when the time comes,it is going to be the hardest thing in the world for me to do, but i also know my Ash has had a wonderful life with us,and has brought us pleasure and joy in our lives, even if he is a mr grumpy puss, we still love him to bits.

    Again thanks for your thoughts ,they mean a lot to me, especially when i am worrying about him,as i am right now.
    Furangels only lent.
    RIP my gorgeous Sooti, taken from us far too young, we miss your beautiful face and purssonality,take care of Ash for us, love you xx000❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Ash,your pawprints are forever in my heart, love and miss you so much my big boy. ❤️❤️

    RIP my sweet gorgeous girl Ellie-Mae, a little battler to the end, you will never ever be forgotten, your little soul is forever in my heart, my thoughts, my memories, my love for you will never die, Love you my darling little precious girl.❤️❤️

    RIP our sweet Nikita taken suddenly ,way too soon ,you were a special girl we loved you so much ,miss you ❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Lexie, 15 years of unconditional love you gave us, we loved you so much, and miss you more than words can say.❤️❤️

    RIP beautiful Evee Ray Skye ,my life will never be the same with out you ,I loved you so much, I will never forget you ,miss you my darling .❤️❤️

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    My thoughts are with Ash and you! *HUGS* and *Gentle Pets* from all of us.

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    Thank you all for your kind words, i got him to eat some chicken, part of my dinner for tonite, i know it is not that good for his kidneys though, but it was all he would take, he only ate like a dozen biscuits this morning and now a small amount of chicken, so you see that is not much ,at least he is still eating i guess, fingers and all paws crossed for a better day tomorrow.

    He likes this tin of Dine tasty chicken casserole, i got to admit it smells good, we can only get it at one supermarket, so make a special trip to get it,however he usually likes it for one day , then goes off it, trouble is my Ellie-mae who is the only other kitty who eats wet food, gets his left overs and as result is becoming rather chubby..all my other kitties need to loose weight and poor Ash needs to put it on,just like my hubby and I lol,he can have my extra anyday.
    Furangels only lent.
    RIP my gorgeous Sooti, taken from us far too young, we miss your beautiful face and purssonality,take care of Ash for us, love you xx000❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Ash,your pawprints are forever in my heart, love and miss you so much my big boy. ❤️❤️

    RIP my sweet gorgeous girl Ellie-Mae, a little battler to the end, you will never ever be forgotten, your little soul is forever in my heart, my thoughts, my memories, my love for you will never die, Love you my darling little precious girl.❤️❤️

    RIP our sweet Nikita taken suddenly ,way too soon ,you were a special girl we loved you so much ,miss you ❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Lexie, 15 years of unconditional love you gave us, we loved you so much, and miss you more than words can say.❤️❤️

    RIP beautiful Evee Ray Skye ,my life will never be the same with out you ,I loved you so much, I will never forget you ,miss you my darling .❤️❤️

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    Ok well the weekend was awful, Ash was totally miserable and hardly ate anything, we had a chicken from red rooster for dinner,which he usually loves, and yes he did eat a little, however by that time we had administered his new medication, gabe the vet has put him on anaplex, a anabolic steroid and vitamin D.

    I am so happy to tell you there is some progress today, the medicine must have kicked in and he has been eating well today, two plates of biscuits and two small plates of chicken, and lots of water, he is still quite fussy about what he want to eat, and even the dine tasty casserole he has still been turning his nose up at.

    He did however look kinda drugged up yesterday afternoon,kind spaced out,which i did not like, but just the fact he is eating better is such a blessing and i am so relieved, i thought his days were coming to an abrupt end, and i was having many sleepless nights just wondering what to do next for my ole fella,anyhow will keep you all posted on his progress, please just keep in your thoughts and prayers if you can, thanks.
    Furangels only lent.
    RIP my gorgeous Sooti, taken from us far too young, we miss your beautiful face and purssonality,take care of Ash for us, love you xx000❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Ash,your pawprints are forever in my heart, love and miss you so much my big boy. ❤️❤️

    RIP my sweet gorgeous girl Ellie-Mae, a little battler to the end, you will never ever be forgotten, your little soul is forever in my heart, my thoughts, my memories, my love for you will never die, Love you my darling little precious girl.❤️❤️

    RIP our sweet Nikita taken suddenly ,way too soon ,you were a special girl we loved you so much ,miss you ❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Lexie, 15 years of unconditional love you gave us, we loved you so much, and miss you more than words can say.❤️❤️

    RIP beautiful Evee Ray Skye ,my life will never be the same with out you ,I loved you so much, I will never forget you ,miss you my darling .❤️❤️

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    Ash is doing a little better if he's eating something! Seems like the meds are beginning to work.

    Maybe he seemed drugged because he had just been drugged! I would think that effect would wear off as his system gets used to the meds. If it doesn't soon, you might consult the vet about it.

    Best wishes and lots of prayers for Ash and your whole family,

    Pat and kitties

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    Thank you Pat, yes of course it will take time for his system to adjust to the meds, honestly yesterday he ate like a horse, i was so relieved, today not so good, but still eating much better than before, i feel the meds are the right choice for him and i am happy with my decision., to medicate Ash, i made a promise to him and myself i would prolong his life and make it more comfortable to the end, but i would not put him through anything painful,or distressing to either of us.

    I have time to prepare myself for what lies ahead, and i know when his time comes it will be very hard on me, but i also know we all have to come to the end of our life sometime, and his will be whenever it is to be, and i will have comfort in knowing i helped him as best i possibly could.

    Anyhow on a more cheerier note,he is basking out in the sunshine,enjoying the warmth today,and through his recent illness Ash enjoys a bit more cuddles than he used to, he still gives me the odd hiss and growl, but to me it is now music to my ears, i know he is still fighting on.
    Furangels only lent.
    RIP my gorgeous Sooti, taken from us far too young, we miss your beautiful face and purssonality,take care of Ash for us, love you xx000❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Ash,your pawprints are forever in my heart, love and miss you so much my big boy. ❤️❤️

    RIP my sweet gorgeous girl Ellie-Mae, a little battler to the end, you will never ever be forgotten, your little soul is forever in my heart, my thoughts, my memories, my love for you will never die, Love you my darling little precious girl.❤️❤️

    RIP our sweet Nikita taken suddenly ,way too soon ,you were a special girl we loved you so much ,miss you ❤️❤️

    RIP my beautiful Lexie, 15 years of unconditional love you gave us, we loved you so much, and miss you more than words can say.❤️❤️

    RIP beautiful Evee Ray Skye ,my life will never be the same with out you ,I loved you so much, I will never forget you ,miss you my darling .❤️❤️

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    That sounds wonderful, that Ash is eating some and doing better, enjoying the sunshine and the cuddles but still being up for the odd hiss.

    You sound very wise, to take each day as it comes and celebrate the love you and Ash share. Please keep us all posted. This is the kind of report I love to follow.

    Hugs and purrs,
    Pat and the kitties

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