Parents PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE be careful!!!!!
Last night my son Dylan (15 months) got his foot stuck in between the
wooden slats on his Jenny Lind crib. These are VERY expensive cribs
but are still the slats should be spaced closer together. His crib
meets all the standards they must meet and everything but this STILL
happened.
He went to bed at 9 pm, and around 10:30 I heard him start screaming
so loud. I ran into the bedroom turned on the light and saw his foot
stuck in bewteen the bars. I screamed for Dan totally panicking
because I couldn't get his foot out. :( I was crying so bad. I had to
pull the crib out and twist his leg to get his foot free. I was a
wreck. I cannot stand to see him get hurt. :( His foot is bruised and
I will be taking pictures and sending it to the company. I don't know
how I am to prevent this from happening again, only pray to god it
doesn't happen again.
So please if your baby cries check on him every time like I do. Dan
often says to let him cry and he will go back to bed but I knew this
time something was wrong. A mother knows!!!!
During this time I was holding my three velveteen two week old babies
when I heard Dylan crying. My mind reacted so fast I didn't know
where I had put my babies. I had thrown them down in the crib to help
Dylan. After Dylan was free I remembered about my babies and started
freaking out. They were in the crib unharmed but still, it was very
nervewracking to have your son trapped and them you not even knowing
where you through your fur children during that time. I guess I just
thre them down not even thinking. My god, I felt so horrible after.
Thank goodness they were all fine. What a night I tell you. Something
I DO NOT want to go through again!!!!
I am sorry this is messed up but just typing about this makes me cry.
Parents PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't panic!!!!!
Wow, that's quite a story. I'm glad too it was just some bruising, but I don't think it does Dylan any good for you to get so hysterical when things like this happen. If kids sense their mom panicking, it just intensifies the panic for them. They also might start to enjoy their ability to make mom freak out, and will end up overreacting for attention. Try to remain calm. Conduct yourself as though you were the closest EMT who needs to give medical aid without falling to pieces. Yes, I know it's hard when it's your own children, but they need to feel that you are their rock, and are fully capable of making things better for them. (Now, if it had been his neck that was caught, and death was imminent, that would be another thing altogether, and the strongest of parents would fall apart.) Had it been me, I probably would have calmed baby while having Dad work on the foot that was stuck, either by Vaseline or by cutting off the post holding it trapped. How about purchasing some loosely woven mesh-type material to wrap tightly around the outside of the crib, so that he can't stick any of his parts through? Then he would still be able to see outside the crib and have ventilation. Or, how about putting a mattress in a playpen or travel crib with higher, net sides? I can never remember what your financial situation is from week to week, but if you have plenty of money, buy a better crib setup, and if not, modify the one you have until he's old enough to sleep in a bed with a safety rail.
Re: Parents PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't panic!!!!!
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Originally posted by All Creatures Great And Small
Or, how about putting a mattress in a playpen or travel crib with higher, net sides? I can never remember what your financial situation is from week to week, but if you have plenty of money, buy a better crib setup, and if not, modify the one you have until he's old enough to sleep in a bed with a safety rail.
We just took him out of his play pen to put him in a crib, which would give him more room. He just started sleeping on his own, sleeping sometimes in his playpen and other nights with us.
I do not think it was appropriate for you to mention anything about my financial situation. As far as his crib goes, it was purchased in December, and was a Christmas present which costs well over 350$ for the whole setup including the crib, which is convertible to a toddler bed when he reaches 2 years of age, the matress and the comforter set. It is a very nice crib, if there is a "better" one out there perhaps someone can let me know.
Re: Re: Parents PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't panic!!!!!
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Originally posted by luckies4me
I do not think it was appropriate for you to mention anything about my financial situation.
Why? You yourself mention it every chance you get, whether good or bad - one of the first things you mentioned in the original post was what an expensive crib it was, so the financial aspect was put out there by you, not me. One day you're telling everyone you're broke, the next you've "won a lawsuit" (?) and are rolling in dough. I just didn't want to suggest something expensive and have you all ticked off at me for not being sensitive to your financial situation.