I am at a lose at what to do here and am asking for some honest advice from some wise people. My PT family.
The way our schedule works out for lunch I take my break with a man. He is 41 and very good looking, single, never been married.
He dates 30 something women.
I will call him Bill.
I am married and 52.
His mom had him young, she is 56.
We are just friends, he dates women that are young enough to be my daughters.
We hired a new women.
She is 41, has two grown children and is expecting a grandchild any day.
She is getting married in July.
This women wants Bill bad.
Bill has no interest at all in her.
She makes very sexual comments, goes up very close to smell him, picks lint off of him, stands too close, and it makes working difficult because there are not very many of us and we do have to work together all day long.
The problem for Bill and I is she wants to have lunch with us. We don't want to have lunch with her.
Yesterday we had an hour and a half because of a meeting so we met in secret, took seperate cars and met at a resturant and had lunch on the patio and it was lovely.
Because we are just friends we talk about movies, books, current events, family, vacations, every thing under the sun.
When she is there the talk always turns to sex and it is so painfully obvious she wants to sleep with him.
The other day we just sat there, neither one of us talked, our heads were down, we ate in silence while she gabbed on and on and on about this and that. I was trying so hard not to laugh or look at Bill and vise versa.
I have asked my friends and hubby and they said to just tell her that we want to eat alone but with only so few people in the office everyone is already paired up with someone time wise.
We don't want to be mean either.
And another point is that she is not a nice person. She is bossy and sceaming.
Bill is a bit worried about his actions. If he is too cold to her his concern is that she might spread rumors about him or say something untrue about him. And yes I believe she would. I know Bill well enough to know that he is an honest man and has no reason to lie to me.
This is such a bad situation. I feel like high school all over again.
She has buddied up to the Dr and office manager by bringing them gifts and such.
This does not look good.
I need some sage PT advice. Wombat what do I do?
Lose my lunch partner and eat alone? I guess that would mean three people all avoiding each other in the lunch room which is hard to do.
