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They did meet on-line. This girl is highly educated and extremely talented. However her physical apprenece was not so great, very very over weight, perhaps 250 lbs and almost bald. She must be suffering from alapecia. It had a lot to do with her low self-esteem I am sure. My son didn't care that she was heavy and almost bald, he liked her a lot. I was very proud of him for that. However I am sure that she was teased by others. When she meet someone who liked her for herself and not her looks she latched onto him like a rash on a butt. Soon however it became apperent that she didn't care for him she just wanted to control him and it got ugly fast. She also has a photogragic memory. Smart and crazy. When I think back on all the manipulative things she did it makes my skin crawl. One doesn't think of a brillant person as a stalker but she was.
Later that day when I realized she had spent the night, when I got all the details, how she said good night to my son (he was going to bed) she told him " I am just going to go downstairs and hang with your mom for a bit" I then took the wash upstairs and went to bed, my husband was watching TV in our room, our daughter was in her room, she said to me " I am going to get something to drink and hang out with our son for a bit. We had all said goodnight to her, and she knew that, planned it that way, it was her intention to NOT leave my home. There we were the four of us in bed with no idea that Miss Crazy Stalker was downstairs. Oh God even now it makes me so sick to think of that. What was she doing? Going through our private paper work, snopping, planning, plotting to hurt us? So scary.
She would call my son 30 days a day, first being nice and then getting madder and madder when he didn't call back and finally just screaming. By the time the Christmas party came and she sat outside I was so done. I was afraid for my family and I was ready to take action. I wanted to make it clear 1000% percent that her presence would not be welcome not today, tomorrow or ever. I had to make her more afraid of me then I was of her that is how to get rid of a stalker.
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Damn. That's crazy scary!!!
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Thankfully, he hasn't tried to contact me since the day he emailed me and I told him to back the eff off or he'd be getting a visit from my brother. My brother is retired navy, and was a drill instructor and would kick his butt.
