OMG... she took Cam with her..... :eek:
I'm so sorry you and your hubby are being put through all of this. :(
I pray for you all and for Cam's safe return.
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OMG... she took Cam with her..... :eek:
I'm so sorry you and your hubby are being put through all of this. :(
I pray for you all and for Cam's safe return.
{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}
When they find your daughter - and they will, and Cam too - she will be dragged in for an assessment SO fast her head will spin!
I am sure you have ideas where she MIGHT go - to her old boyfriend?
If she wasn't in a car, she can't go a long ways.
I hope this is on the news, and it will have to be - to get the public's help!
Are the police involved too? I guess SS will call them?
HUGS and huge PRAYERS!
This could be a blessing in disguise, as things will be brought to a head.
HUGS!
Prayers for all of you.
Oh Kim, this is dreadful! One time when my daughter moved away and I had Jenna, the "father" showed up and was supposed to just be getting Jenna for a visit. He kept her and would not bring her back to me! I went to his house and almost assaulted him! I called the police and they went in to do a quick "home check" (they had quickly flushed their drugs) :mad: and I had to leave without Jenna. "HE" is her legal guardian and if the mom isn't availabe he rightly gets her! :( Calling social services is the BEST thing you can do right now! SO STICK WITH IT! The best you can hope for is to win temporary custody of Cam while she is "getting her act together".
PRAYERS AND HUGS! Call me if you need to!
Kim
Although it won't seem like it at the time this may have been the best thing for her to do - as Catty said this may just kick start the process of her getting the help she needs.
Expect she will slink back soon when she wants something
I am just curious. Isn't the child hers? How can Social Services get involved if she left with her own child? Not a judgment, just a question.
Sara, you are correct! See my post just 2 above yours.Quote:
Originally Posted by Edwina's Secretary
I was kinda wondering this as well. Since her prior behavior has NOT been reported, what can SS do? What can the police do?Quote:
Originally Posted by Edwina's Secretary
Granted, I'm sure there is a lot I don't know...so I hope this doesn't sound like a negative question. I'm just wondering too.
LOTS of prayers going to the family...to each member...that things will right themselves. That she'll come home with her little one. Home is a MUCH better, safer, and more loving option than her just up and running with a little one with little to no plans.
Hugs for you, Kim. I'm sure you're having to be not only the brains here, but also the support for your hubby. Be strong, you can do it.
I'm here too....if you want to talk.
Hugs, Love & Prayers,
Kelly
I think her hospitalization can be reported, and info on her lifestyle that led her there (if the doctors know anything). And - reports about what she has done before from members of the family.
If questions are asked about why no one called, it's because she did have an appt booked with a psychiatrist this month - so there was hope.
I don't know legally what an employer can say - but if she has been through jobs fairly frequently, then that says something. And unless she can prove she had enough money to support her and Cam on their own - could her running off with him be construed to be some form of neglect?
I pray Cam is found unharmed.
Oh my gosh you must be worried sick about them both, not knowing where they have gone,i hope this does turn out to be a blessing in disguise too, but i agree with others if nothing has been reported as such, i imagine nothing can be done,i sincerely hope things take a turn around for the better, you have had more than enough to go through, thinking of you.
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Much of what you say is pretty much what we're hoping will happen. With the exception of the psychiatrist.... she lied about that. Her appt was with a gyno for a pap smear. In and out and done. She had no intention of mentioning the whole depression thing. She really thinks there is no issue. So I called the gyno and had a long chat with her yesterday. I told her I know she can't say anything about her but that I could tell her what was happening. The doctor was VERY concerned and told me she would get a social worker involved.Quote:
Originally Posted by Catty1
This is all such a mess. We are certain she took Cam only to hurt hubby. He's devastated and said he would have tossed her out months ago if not for Cam. He doesn't want her back -- he only wants the baby. I'm thinking a week or two of having him full time and she'll be knocking on the door and dropping him off. She CAN NOT handle him herself. She's totally and completely incapable of caring for him herself.
Hugs...are the cops involved?
I would guess that the social services people etc have seen a lot of this, and they may have ideas of where to look for her.
Has this hit the news at all? If it is heard on a police scanner, then it just might.
Be prepared to screen calls if you don't want to talk to the media. It CAN help, in that she might turn herself and Cam in - but it can get to be a bit crazy also.
Prayers your way.
Kim, I've been following this thread but I haven't posted anything until now. I hope that everthing will work out and I'll continue to keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care. (((HUGS)))
Seems very plausible that might be exactly what happens only I doubt it will take a full week.Quote:
Originally Posted by catnapper
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Originally Posted by Catty1
Catty1, this statement is a bit" over the top", don't you think? Young
women leaving the family home to strike out on their own is not a police
matter. Doesn't matter if it's a good idea or not.