Kay we love you

Kay,
If you let one person get to you, that person has control over you. That isn't a good thing. I know you are hurt. You should be hurt. Hurt for a while. Not so long that you are overwhelmed by it, just enough to feel it, and move past it. You are SO beyond this, and it is probably the combination of a lot of little things that are getting to you. As someone said above, you might just need to let this one roll off your back. You can't change it. Just accept it for what it is/was-some insecure person's comments about a situation he/she doesn't know anything about, concerning a person he/she doesn't know even know! When you break it down like that, it really isn't significant. Hang in there. This, too, shall pass.

I haven't been able to keep up with every thing too well, but I think I got the jist of what happened..
Obviously you have many many people who care about you and that is what is important. In a perfect world there would be no hurt feelings, but of course we don't live in a perfect world..and I hate to see any one hurting, it hurts my heart.
Hugs to you, Kay..

Kay I just wanted to add my 2 cents worth, I think you already know what a GREAT GIRL I think you are, you display a lot of maturity for one so young, your general outlook on life is positive and despite life's up 's and down's you are alway's there for other's who need help as well., especially me with my computer siggy's, without your assistance which you offer so freely I would not have those lovely siggy's at the bottom of my thread, now would I? you continue to have patience with me and help me and for that I am very thankful.

It saddens me when this type of horrible stuff goes on, and it is just plain immature on that person's behalf, you are a trillion times better a person than they will ever be Kay, so hold your head up high, continue to be proud of who you are, and I hope your hurt feelings will heal soon, as I would be very sad to see you leave here, you have alway's contributed to PT in a big way, and would be missed terribly, so I say chin up Sweetie and please stay here ok.:)

Kay,

Just to let you know you have my support during this time also :)

Hugs,
Naomi.

I don't really know whats going on, but You are a great deal to PT, and your doggies are so cute too.

Kay i am sorry that all of this happened. I think you are a wonderful person and an awesom Mama to your kids. I hope you stick around. Also i would like to talk to you on AIM sometime, i dont mind staying up until 4am to do so ;).

{{HUGS}}

Kay, as many others have said, don't let whoever this was to get to you. I don't know what happened as I haven't seen the thread but I do know you and I know what a wonderful doggie mommy you are and what a wonderful photographer you are. Pet Talk would not be the same without you here sharing your pictures of your beautiful (and handsome) dogs. Whatever was said you have to know in your heart of hearts that there is no way they could be true. Otherwise why would so many people keep responding to your posts? Give you so much praise and encouragment.

I have six dogs and I know a lot of people think I am nuts. I do not have any of them as well trained as you have your 3. But they are my babies. I don't think some people feel as strongly about their pets as some of us others do. Saying nasty mean things about our fur kids or telling us we are crazy to have so many is just wrong. We have to live our lives the way we want and do what makes us happy. You are doing that and doing that well. Don't let anyone get to you with nasty comments.

You are loved here and needed here for what you share with all of us. Diana

Kay,

I value you so much. Your posts, your beautiful pups, your insights into things. I've always loved reading what you have to say, but lately your posts are bright spots in the otherwise dark days since Bailey's passing.

Please, please, don't leave. Please don't let this "waste of skin" and their stupid comments drive you off this board. You can't give some anonymous troll that kind of power over you.

Please PM me if you need to. We all care about you so much.

Hugs,

Stephanie, Brian, and Guinness

Kay you know how I feel about you and all of this. You are a great friend to me and I'm sorry all of this crap happened. I hope things will start going better for you, and please don't ever leave Pet Talk. I know I've almost left half a dozen times but I always come back...and nobody would even miss me lol, but you are a very important member here! :)

I want to thank you all again.
I know that those of you who've been with me through this ARE the people I can trust. I know that in my heart and i've always known that.

Thank you for the posts/PM's/IM's, everything.
My feelings as of now may mean NOTHING to some people, but they do mean a lot to me and i've had a rough time... and i'm glad to see that so many of you understand that.

I've recieved some interesting news about the whole situation which got me to rethinking as to who it is. I wish the coward who said those idiotic things would just come out in the open instead of just causing even more turmoil. It'll come back to them, i'm sure of it. It always does, always will.


Thank you all again... I'm off to reply to yuor PM's.

Kay,

I know I haven't been a great "friend" over the past year or so, but i really am sorry for that, and i see now that what i did/said was stupid and childish... Even though we don't talk much and all now i still think what happened to you was really horrible, and whoever did it WAS just jealous of you.. Your such a nice person, and have 3 gorgeous pups, and so who wouldn't? ;) :p

I hope the person who did it is found and all of this can be over.. Im sorry that you had to go through all of that.

Amber :)

Kay,

I, too, know I haven't been the best of friends this past year or so, but I HIGHLY respect you and I'm glad we were able to make up and put all of that behind us. Don't let this immature jerk get to you. You're a much, much better person then they are and I'm really sorry you had to go through all of that.

We all care about you. :)

will someone be kind, and tell me what happened?

Kay, i'm sorry for whatever happened. You truely are a wonderful person.

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Originally posted by Kfamr

I wish the coward who said those idiotic things would just come out in the open instead of just causing even more turmoil. It'll come back to them, i'm sure of it. It always does, always will.

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Kay, I don't have the slightest idea of what happened because I never saw the posts, but you're right only a coward would make use of the anonimity of the Internet to hurt you. And you're also right in believing that nobody can go through life doing despicable things without paying for them eventually. I've seen it over and over again...
We all respect you and are very fond of you. You are a very mature young woman and a wonderful mommy to your precious pups.
If anything, this will help you learn that the best way to deal with abnoxious people, and there are many in this world, is to ignore them.
Be sure that all of us here are with you 100%.
Hugs.

Kay, I don't really understand what has happened, but whatever has happened, I am very sorry. And I give you all of ny love and support. You are just the sweetestm kindest, most beautiful member her on Pet Talk, Kay, and keep saying that to yourself, because YOU ARE!!! We love you, and your muttley trio!:) :)