You are too funny!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Moesha
Dave, my boyfriend, just read this entire thread, lol. Seems Johnny, the writer, found it because I linked his site. They were amused at all the inquiries. :o :p
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You are too funny!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Moesha
Dave, my boyfriend, just read this entire thread, lol. Seems Johnny, the writer, found it because I linked his site. They were amused at all the inquiries. :o :p
I liked our suggestions better than jeans and a tshirt. :D
Me too!!! He took all the fun out of it. Well, it is an April party... we'll just have to see what the "seasonal" parties are like. :D It still could get a little risque... I mean, he said the guy has a sunken hot tub in the middle of his living room (dang!!), and there will be a chocolate fountain, so who knows what will be going in that! :p:eek::pQuote:
Originally Posted by Moesha
Jenn, you are so brave!!
You could wear one of those wrap dresses and if it feels more appropriate to keep it on when you get there, you can, but if you feel like you need to be like the 'romans', you could unwrap the wrap dress and take it off, which would seem like a robe at that point. You'll only have one piece to remove rather than a shirt, pants etc.. and it will look like you planned it. After all, you'll have to wear something while you're driving there. Otherwise, it could make for a very interesting traffic stop should you get pulled over. lol :)
http://i225.photobucket.com/albums/d.../wrapdress.jpg
I dont know... Brian sometimes thinks he's living in the playboy mansion since I walk around nude int he morning lol (NOT that I am playboy material) but outdoors in april? I can't imagine anyone male or female wanting to do that no matter WHAT their body looked like lol
Lara's idea of a wrap dress is good. How about a Hawaiian print sarong wrap?
I know you do not need anymore suggestions,
I just can't wait till you post what eveybody did or did not wear. lol:D
Had a GREAT weekend up there this weekend.
We were hot tubbing with some of the friends, and I was a BRAVE girl. Also a bit hammered, but it got me to be less inhibited. :p;) Let's just leave that one at that, lol. Other than that, clothed weekend for me and most everyone else I saw there. It was downright chilly today, and we had a hail storm.
:eek: WoW you got hammered with your cloths on right.. :p Well I am Glad you had a Great Time & all went well for the weekend.. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by jenn_librarian
well, i wasn't like "hammered" hammered, but let's just say my inhibitions were severely lowered, lol.
I had fun. I was comfortable. I was amazed, lol. These people are just accepting didn't make me feel bad about myself. If anything, they made me feel good.
Glad you felt comfortable and had a great time. :)
I'm getting nervous!!! Saturday is getting closer.
My new friend from there may not be going with her husband, and she's like the big sister I don't have. I kinda rely on her for support. She's so nice, and she was new to the resort as of last year, so we have something in common.
I have capris and a shirt picked out, and sarongs on order and should be delivered today by UPS, so I'll have to see how thiings go. I got a book on how to wrap them as well. Different styles and such. I get my legs waxed tomorrow, cause I don't want to have nicks and cuts, lol. I'm trying to be overly prepared!
OMG... if you guys want stories or observations on the entire night let me know. I don't know whether to laugh or cry about half of what I saw. Seriously. It was a strange one!!! OH... I stayed clothed. This particular group scared me. And asked me to do a porn vid with them. EWWWWW. RUnning away.... lol.
Of course we want to know!! We've been waiting for this update.
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Originally Posted by jenn_librarian
Sir Isaac Newton isn't done with you..........gravity is not kind.
Yup, we definately need stories!
YUCK! What did your BF think???:eek::eek:
He couldn't stop laughing at my reactions, lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Catty1
Ok where to start....
I'm keeping this above boards, so you'll have to read between the lines on some things, lol.
When we got there, omg, talk about a sight!! This was a private party, not sponsored by the resort, so it was just all out there. We walk in, there's people smoking up in the kitchen, there's naked people all over the place, which was fine and expected, but they were so OLD!!! Here, the guy who had the party runs a group called Sinergy or Synergy, and they are all the older swingers. So many of the people there were not normal Sunny Rest people (look up www.sunnyrest.com if you are curious). There were men in thongs, women in merry widow outfits, you name it, they were in or out of these things all night.
The house, lol, I just about fell over. It's called the Playhouse, and holy crap, was it ever!!! There's a sunken hot tub in the living room that is really cool. I didn't go in, cause there were just too many people in it, and lord knows what was going on in there. He also had all these back rooms with all kinds of stuff going on. There were like 4-6 people in these rooms doing all kinds of things! I was kinda scared, to tell the truth! There was a loft with bunk beds that looked out over the living room for viewing, there were special chairs for the women, lol. OMG. I was just floored.
There were some real swingers there, no kidding. I mean, I couldn't keep up with who was with whom. And the one old lady, and I swear she was 80 if she was a day, she would go in the back with a guy, come back out 30 mins. later, wait at the end of the hallway, and take another guy back. This happened like 4 times in the 3 hrs we were there. Part of me wanted to say "Go Grams!" and the other was just kind of disgusted.
Food was good. The people I met and talked to were nice and funny, except the annoying couple who wanted to make a porno, lol. That was just scary! The whole night just makes me laugh. I can't wait for the next party, a NORMAL nudist party, where people are not so out there.. this was just a strange group!
By the way, the next party is in two weekends. It's a PAJAMA PARTY.
Exactly what should I wear to that one?! What kinds of pjs are they going to be wearing?!:rolleyes::p
+ a million. LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by Edwina's Secretary
When I was 19, I was in the Army and stationed in Germany. Our unit took a trip to Loret del Mar,Spain. I recall being geeked about seeing a nude beach... Till I SAW the nude beach.
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Oy...
ES sums it up well.... No excuse me while I go gouge my minds eye out. LOL
Oh, and I just told mom and dad about where he is going to be living, and they're ok with it. :D My mom is familiar with the place and the family that owned/owns it and said to just stay out of trouble basically, and that you have freaky people anywhere, lol.
OH and we're meeting each other's parents this weekend! This is a big step!
That's awesome! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by jenn_librarian
That is one interesting party! I lead such a dull life. :D
talk about something to talk about...LOL...
I can imagine some wacky stuff... but I bet it's not nearly as what you witnessed...
Or not wearing? Hmmm...Quote:
Originally Posted by jenn_librarian
Elyse's embarrassing "clothing optional" moment... on a Carnival cruise, fall 1998. At the back of the pool deck is a staircase leading up to another, smaller deck. I'm thinking that would be a great spot from which to take a picture facing the front of the ship, so I head up the stairs and - Whoops! Clothing-optional sunbathing ahead! :o No wonder people were giving me funny looks as I headed up those stairs in my T-shirt, shorts, baseball hat, socks and sneakers. What a dork! I very quickly snapped the photo and high-tailed it out of there. Found out later that on the first day the ship sails, that little deck is not clothing optional, so that would have been the day to get the photo.
[QUOTE=jenn_librarian;2138933]Ok where to start....I'm keeping this above boards, so you'll have to read between the lines on some things, lol....
There were some real swingers there, no kidding. I mean, I couldn't keep up with who was with whom. And the one old lady, and I swear she was 80 if she was a day, she would go in the back with a guy, come back out 30 mins. later, wait at the end of the hallway, and take another guy back. This happened like 4 times in the 3 hrs we were there. .....
admirable stamina that woman. now jenn, have you had the safe sex/aids test & talk yet with the new boyfriend?
yes!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by joycenalex
I made it quite clear that I don't swing, don't plan to swing, don't want to swing. also yes to the std talks as well.
All I can say is I sympathise lol. Ive seen some out there things at parties myself, it takes a lot to shock me anymore.
Hope the next group is a bit more sane :D
Well, meeting the parents went ok. His mom and step dad were really nice. They treated me like I had been there for years. I liked that. His mom put me to work in the kitchen, and it felt great to help.
My parents were good. My dad was great, my mom... eh. She was just grumpy as usual and was having fits because my dad took Dave down to see his gun collection in the basement (heaven forbid visitors go to the basement, lol). His kids were really good, chatty and nervous, but really good. I adore them so much.
This weekend is the pj party. I bought a top that is like a cami, so it's not too far from my comfort zone, and a pair of really cute cheeky panties, and some killer sandals, lol. I just need to get there and feel comfy and I'll be ok. OH, and I'm hooking up one of my friends with one of our friends from there for the party too, lol. It should prove to be interesting!
WELL, I've missed a thread and a half here, haven't I?? ;)
I saw this when it started, but figured it was just one party - this is a relationship! All I can say is you're braver than I am! My husband and I attended some pretty wild parties in college, but none compare! As for the 80 year old hosting rounds in the back room - yuk. :p
You're very comfortable in your own skin (no pun intended :)), and that's a good thing. Have a great time and keep us posted - it's very entertaining!
You're probably at the party now :p ... do tell us what happened!
Will have to update tomorrow when I have more time at work and can recollect what went on and try to remember. I'll PM a few of you since we have to keep things clean and family friendly. Yay. :rolleyes:
you sure are keeping us intrigued.. LOL...looking forward for more stories.. hehe.. hope you had fun...
ok... so where to begin.
I ended up taking a friend with me this weekend. I had arranged a blind date for a friend up there and thought that my friend might be a good match. Eh. It went ok, but not as expected, but I hope they can stay friendly and still enjoy eachother's company (yeah, they both swing/party or whatever you want to call it). Setting up blind dates for swingers is harder than I thought it would be. Both sides are so picky!!
We all had dinner out on the deck. It was gorgeous here on Saturday. Sunny and almost 80*. We had steaks on the grill, roasted veggies, some crusty bread, wine, beer, and good conversation and company.
We ended up getting changed at Johnny's place for the party. So much for me being shy and wanting to change in private. I had enough beer in me that I didn't care, and was just like, whoosh... there it goes, lol. So, we got ready, went to the party, and actually everyone except for a few really were wearing pjs and robes and lingerie kind of things. It was very relaxed and calm, and NOTHING like the first party. Actually it was a little too tame and boring for me, but better that than scary, lol. Had some more to drink, flirted with a few of the men there, lol, and then we went back to Johnny's to hot tub. It was a really nice evening all the way around!
I so enjoy spending time with Dave. He's just so sweet and funny. I'm feeling pretty comfortable up at the resort, so this is going well. I haven't gone nude outside yet, and I don't know when that will happen, but right now the pace is pretty good for me. One thing I will say is that if Dave has his kids with him, I will not disrobe. I just don't think that is cool. For the pool, that's one thing, because at the pool there you are NOT allowed to wear anything in it, but other than that, I don't think I would do it. I know they are used to it, but still.... just not what I think would be appropriate at this junction.
If anyone wants more details, I can PM you, lol. Other things happened, but I'd rather not talk about them on the open forum.
I'll let you know if there is a next party, or if it's just going to start up regular since the season begins in about 3 weeks, so it should get moving almost every weekend at that point.
Jenn,
I love reading your stories about these get togethers. You are brave. I don't think I'd be comfortable in that kind of environment. You go girl! :)
I read your accounts and just keep picturing my school librarian doing those things. It gives life a whole new perspective. LOL
I don't think I was EVER the typical librarian, lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Moesha
Woo!!! Ok, the season opens in 3 weeks! Now how to get totally comfortable and at ease in front of hundreds of people.....
I do have to carry to towel with me when I travel nude, it's the polite thing to do. so... towel will be in hand. Sarong maybe as well. I think that will all be cool... but how to be "cool" "calm" and "collected" in front of hundreds of naked people. Like 1000 naked people on the weekends.
Suggestions?! :p ;)
Really really dark sunglasses? :p