Run ladies................................ :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by wombat2u2004
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Run ladies................................ :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by wombat2u2004
hahaha love you two :D
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Originally Posted by king2005
We appear to have hijacked your thread - sorry about that ;)
What's more fun to talk about? Naugtiness or a guy who won't get the hint? I vote naughty! :p :D :oQuote:
Originally Posted by Brody's Mum
I'm missing something here. Very confused as to why this is a problem. You dated for a month. That's all? That's not a relationship.
He contacted you and said he's out of rehab and has a job. That's not a threat. Just don't respond to his message. Or do.... just congratulate him and tell him good luck. Then go on with your life.
Why all the drama? Did I miss something?
What you do is stop talking to him all together. Men do not take hints. They need actual, full on, direct words telling them WHAT NOT TO DO. Then leave it at that.Quote:
Originally Posted by king2005
If he comes back, if he calls, if he shows up at your door, whatever it is, document it, but DO NOT confront. Do not acknowledge him. If he becomes irate and pounds on the door or harasses you at work, or just keeps figuring out ways to get your attention, put an end to it. Immediately. Go to the
police. Get a restraining order. Protection from Abuse (PFA). Whatever your area calls it, get it.
He will know that you mean business, and if he has changed, he'll realize he's being a jerk and go away. If he persists, that you really care for him and all that other delusional stuff, he's got MAJOR issues. Make sure it the authorities know. Make sure you notify the cops whenever he shows up. People who behave like that are just wack jobs waiting to have some kind of personality disorder, attack you, hurt (or kill) you, then plead insanity and tell the judges that they were off their meds and had no idea what they were doing.
Kingrattus is a name. You can pick another one.Quote:
Originally Posted by king2005
Unless you like the drama and want the thrill of him coming back to you, you'll change it.
If you take his actions seriously, change it.
If you don't, keep the name and then deal with the repercussions.
If he ends up being a freak and hurting you, well... at least you still have your screen name.
Sorry. Sounds mean, but sometimes you have to look past things the small things and at the bigger picture.
Oh God no.....I don't need any more running after me....LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by Brody's Mum
Wom
Its just a dog, get a new one.Quote:
Originally Posted by jenn_librarian
Thats kinda how I feel. I have money invested in it & its part of me. I'm not changing who I am because of some guy. I've already lost just about everything I've owned & what I have left I'm not giving up.
I was hoping there was a way around dealing with the police & not changing my name... The only option is to talk to the ploce about the issue, which I already mentioned earlier I was going to do.
Good plan! Even if they say "there's nothing we can do until he's broken a law," say "what's the definition of harassment and how do I document it" and ask them about local anti-stalking resources. You'll have to do some detective work, but don't reinvent the wheel - find the people who've already blazed the trail for people in your area.Quote:
Originally Posted by king2005
Love, Columbine
And on top of that...get the police to actually document the fact that you had made a complaint. I don't know what it's like where you come from....but here they do that anyway.Quote:
Originally Posted by columbine
That way...if something happens in the future, thats added ammo for your cause.
Wombat
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Originally Posted by king2005
For your own safety, you'd be amazed at what you can actually do.
I know too many people who have had ex-boyfriends harm them, TWO who have died at the hands of an ex-boyfriend they felt sure would never actually hurt them, and a minor little thing like a computer username would never hold me back from protecting myself.
Please, be cautious.
Ummm.... its not the same as "just a dog". A better analogy would be comparing it to your locks. If someone said to change your locks after you were robbed, wouldn't you? So what if you'd have to give your parents and dog sitter new keys..... those who know and love you will get the new keys (or email add.) and those that you want to keep away won't be able to come through the door.Quote:
Originally Posted by king2005
Honestly, a name isn't worth your safety no matter what your name is. ESEPCAILLY since its just an internet name. Many of people willingly change their real names to keep themselves safe. So why fight to keep a madeup one?
""Many of people willingly change their real names to keep themselves safe.""
Well I don't.....my real name is Wombat....that's what my mother named me......and I'm sticking to it. (Actually my real name is Loretta...but I can't tell you that)
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[QUOTE=wombat2u2004Well I don't.....my real name is Wombat....that's what my mother named me......and I'm sticking to it. (Actually my real name is Loretta...but I can't tell you that)
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As I said before.....typical Aussie :rolleyes: :D
Thanks for the laugh - are you on the Sheila's Wheels advert? I'd guess you are the one in the middle
Hehehehe.......well I wouldn't mind being the one in the middle...or should I say...I wouldn't mind being WITH the one in the middle....lol.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brody's Mum
As for Loretta....I just couldn't help myself when I posted that....I had just finished watching "The Life of Brian"......and everytime I see that "I want to be a woman" bit with Eric Idle.....I fall off my chair....lol (can't get enough of that one...lol).
Wombat: "WHAT'S YOUR FAVOURITE COLOUR?" :D
Well I could say pink.....just for Brody's Mums sake.... :eek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Catty1
But I'd best tell the truth..........it's red !!!!! :p
Is that good ????
( Say's Wombat waiting for the clanger that is about to befall him) LOL
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Are you a lumberjack?Quote:
Originally Posted by wombat2u2004
He cuts down trees, he wears high heels,
Suspenders and a bra,
He wants to be a girlie,
Just like his dear papa????
Of course I'm a lumberjack !!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Brody's Mum
Would you like me to sing the chorus to that ???? LOL
Wom
All together now............
I'm a lumberjack and I'm OK,
I sleep all night and I work all day.
He's a lumberjack and he's OK,
He sleeps all night and works all day.
I had to google that, never heard of it before :S
BUT it reminded me of this, & everyone in Canada should know this. I still have the blasted tune stuck in my head.
NOW you can all have it stuck in your heads with me!! Click to get a taste (ignore the video)
The Log Drivers Waltz
If you should ask any girl from the parish a-round
What pleases her most from her head to her toes
She'll say: I'm not sure that it's business of yours
But I do like to waltz with a log driver, (for he goes)
CHORUS:
For he goes birling down, a-down white water
That's where the log driver learns to step lightly
It's birling down, a down white water
A log drivers waltz pleases girls com-pletely
When the drive's nearly over, I like to go down
To see all the lads while they work on the river
I know that come evening they'll be in the town
And we all want to waltz with a log driver
To please both my parents, I've had to give way
And dance with the doctors and merchants and lawyers
Their manners are fine, but their feet are of clay
For there's none with the style of a log driver
I've had my chances with all sorts of men
But none is so fine as my lad on the river
So when the drive's over, if he asks me again
I think I will marry my log driver
I just LOVE this song hehe
The lumberjack song
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wDrIMzHzQQk
heheheh that was quite funny
Hahahaha...I love that.Quote:
Originally Posted by Brody's Mum
I like the Fish Slapping Dance to...thats a real hoot.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZMKCLyhBBwI
Wombat