NOOO! I'M SOO UPSET!!!
I don't thnik I ever want to come back.
*SOBS*...I feel like I'm going to black out.
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NOOO! I'M SOO UPSET!!!
I don't thnik I ever want to come back.
*SOBS*...I feel like I'm going to black out.
Why upset now?
Just checking in and saw this!! Gina, what is wrong!!! I thought things went well and you would be picking them up at 4:00. Please update, you have me worried.
I'm sure it's gonna be fine, but I understand you're a bit worried. Here's a picture of our Tess some days after she was neutered.
Itchy, itchy!!
{{{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}}}}}
http://www.abycat.com/galleri/t_kastr.jpg
this just is a mess..
because I didn't feel I've got enough supports, I didn't really want to say what happened but at the same time, didn't want to worry you. I will finish what I started. I'm sorry I asked.
here's what happened - when I picked them up, I see they have notched all of my five furkids' left ears. I got really upsetted/angry because I wrote down clearly and requested they are strcitly indoor cats and do not need another rabies shot or have their ears chipped off. but they did, the nurse forgot to hand that paper to the doctor! but what were they thinking anyway??? (!!!) arrgh, I mean, they were purrfectly healthy, soo sweet and I've been bringing them in for check ups so much. not like I would throw them back outside.. :mad: :( :mad:
that was not the only thing. in the car before we were ready to leave for an hour driving, I took every of them out to say hi and hug them. you know, they need mothersely hugs after all this truama.. chance, (name changed from dante) was the only cat.. *sniffles* ..not moving. I grabbed him and ran back into hospital. because I couldn't speak and had chance in my hands, I couldn't really say anything. it finally took them a few seconds to look at CHANCE instead of staring at this crazy woman who sobbed her head off.
meanwhile they took him in, I wrote down, asked WHY did they did that.. the chance's nurse came back out and shaked her head.. asked other nurse to write down what she said.. "I'm sorry, I don't think he's going to make it......" I ran outside quickly, hate to have them see me crying. that was when I posted the last above. then found out he was still alive and had to stay overnight in ICU. at home now, I've been walking in circles, don't know what to do or when to call in again. I dread to hear something else awful. I'm still not sre what happened, must be from surgery complications.
right now, three boys star are giving me a hard time, they won't eat their breakfast this morning, they just sit still forever wherever I move them. :( and this morning was the first morning without their loud purrings. their ears are really painful too. they tried drinking some water but their heads got up and cocked to left side, had their eyes squished. I think it's because of blood pressure when they put their head down. :mad: :( :(
I guess that would be all for now. I'm gonna try make new picture threads to keep things off my mind - enough ttears.
thank you alice for the hug & a giggle.
Oh my.... I am so sorry that you are going through this. I am primarily a "lurker" on PT.... but I have posted in the past. But I watch and read, and feel everyone's pain and sorrow. Right now, I am crying, as I am so sorry to hear what you are going through. My thoughts and prayers... and even ::::: hug:::: are coming your way as fast as I can send it. I wish that there was something more I could do. My kitties Sasha and Tabitha send their best thoughts and prayers also. Keep the faith. Donna
Sounds like a horrible mess and they were all released too early. I'm not familiar with the ear thing. Why do they cut their ears, especially without your knowlege? I hope they get better. If not, I would take them all back and insist they be taken care of properly. Poor kitties. It's not your fault but I know you feel badly about it. Try not to feel guilty, though.
dukedogsmom, they notch all the feral cats so the next time they catch this cat, they will know they have been fixed, to avoid an extra pain for them too.
but..mine weren't ferals. and what's the worse, they cut it HALF off. HALF?! oh god, that's ...that's more than just a nick. I can't believe I have five one-eared cats now, things just seem so unreal.
it breaks my heart looking at them or their two-eared pictures now. :( it's so hard to not feel guilty. I should have pushed them, make sure they wouldn't do that, twice. or call them every hour to remind to not do them.
donna, you're a lurker, I guess that's special. :) you're right, maybe all this was for the best. thank you!
Gina, please do not feel guilty it is not your fault. Your babies are still beautiful and sweet and special. I hope that they will return to their normal routines shortly and that their ears will be feeling better. Continued prayers that Chance is doing better and will be able to come home to you soon.
(((Hugs)))
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I think I'm going crazy. chance can't come home tonight..
I've finally asked them on phone of what happened.
the nurse who answered said she's not sure and will have to ask the vet who did him yesterday and won't be in until this saturday!
I really want to know.. *crying* I tried their meals just recently, still too painful. I won't sleep. :( :(
Gina, I am still new to Pt, but even so it is obvious you love and take good care of your animal companions. It is horrible when something is out of our control that affects those we love... but try to be gentle with yourself while you go through this with them. They need you to be ok. Crying isn't bad..it shows you still have a heart. Know you and your cats are thought o with love...
I am hoping all the best for you all. Take care of you too.
Sending good thoughts your way and hoping everything works out fine for your cats and you. :)
OMG - I don't know what to say except I am so very sorry
Oh that is SO sad!!! :( What kind of vet's office FORGETS to hand in papers!!! Thet just made me so annoyed!! :mad: And why did they cut HALF thier ear off?????? Aren't they just supposed to nick the ear??? I'm soory, I'm just annoyed. I am praying hard for Chance and you. This must be terrible!!! ((((((((((HUGS)))))))))) for you, lots of prayers. Everything will work out in the end, though!!! God will work all things out for good, there has to be a good reason. Prayers and (((HUGS))).
I'm just getting more & more upset. when will all of this stop? :( now two boys has eartip infection. I see enough of dry blood droplets from eartip to inside ear/down to the head. :mad: it even hurt them when I tried to pet their head, in middle lightly. I will need to order some antibodies creme for their ears...sigh.
I just called the vet office, to check on chance - he's ready to be picked up...I'm really not that hopeful anymore. :( things still seem so unreal. can you imagine having your child with an amputated leg just because the doctor forgot to check the approval form? ugh.
thank you for your thoughtful comments. I was so alone in the dark and this just helps very much.