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Yeah! It has been discssed over and over again. Mum would love to keep her all for herself. In fact she postpones and postpones on the fact that I take her for let's say a whole week at my house. She is so part of her life now she does not imagine herself without her. Every morning as she wakes up it's Pippa time, she cuddles her for a whole half an hour minimum.
I'm quite concerned with Lulu, due to this fact mentioned earlier:
[QUOTE]once a year me and my husband travel for a long period of time that can range from one month to two. Last April - May when we where away we both where very concerned about Lulu and spoke about her every day. Calling mum to ask about her every three to four days, depending on the possibillity to call home. When after a month we where home she just couldn't believe, she kept veiling on me for a long period of time fearing that we might leave her again. She also got very fat with lack of exercise. Mum tried to stimulate her to play but she just wasn't interested.
As you see its for her own good that I'm pushing this, cos i was feeling quite guilty at first.
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OMLORD,
Pippa is TOOOOOOOO adorable!!!! her PAWS look ENORMOUS!
She looks like she is spunky and the photo of lulu... well honey that Girl Definetly has ATTITUDE written all over her. :D
I have a 14 year old Calico.. whome som eof you know has put me thru the wringer this past year. SHadow and Pumpkin were raised together so she grew up with him an dthat was fine. Then Pumpkin crossed over the RB in April 2003. IN january we adopted CLayton, a 7year old Tuxedo. SHadow STILL has NOT accepted Clayton. Shadow is PURE CALICO.. and has the TUde to go with it. BUT she is my Princess and I adore her. Deb and everyone else here HELPED me get thru the initial introduction with Shadow and Clayton. They were right. Shadow has never accepted him.. never will. He leaves her alone.
Then THREE weeks ago we adopted TUCKER. All of our fur children have come from our SPCA where I volunteer. Clayton's nose was WAYYYYYYYYY out of joint. Deb was sucuh a great help and support. They now race thru the house together.. they wrestle and share food dishes.Clayton had his very own Rosewood dining room chair with blankets etc to keep his comfy. Tucker wanted one too and chose Clayton's chair. So I kept moving TUcker. Then it dawned on me that maybe Tucker wanted to be close to Clayton. So I got a blankie and put it on the chair next to Clayton. Worked like a champ.
Shadow has not accepted Tucker and that's ok...He and Clayton are buddies and Shadow likes to be left alone by "the Boys".
I guess the point here is NOT TO GIVE UP. Your Lulu may come around. She is upset with you because you brought in a usurper.
Be patient with her. Cats don't like change. Calicios are even more stubborn. She may come around. It may take longer for her... but she may come around.
This is The BEST PLACE to get advice.Jen and Deb and everyone here has so much experience and advice. PLEASE don't give up.
THey all helped me and I KNow will help you too.
Love, light and Blessings,
Momma Cat... Deb
