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I had a cat who not only wouldn't put up with another cat--she wasn't too happy about having another human living with me, either. (As for the other human, turns out Keke had better sense than I did, LOL!) She spent most of her life as a very happy only cat.
You obviously tried your best with Oliver, and it's certainly not your fault that you weren't warned about his only-cat inclination. I'm sure it's hard to give him up, but he'll be happier where he can be sole lord and master.
I am so terribly sorry things could not be worked out for Oliver. Taking a cat BACK to the shelter HAS to be the hardest thing to do. But don't beat yourself up, you tried REALLY hard!!!
Kelly -
I'm really sorry about this, but I believe that you are doing what is best for you and for Oliver and I am behind you all the way. I also know that whoever finds Oliver in the shelter will have to succumb to rigorous questioning from you or someone on your behalf, so you can be comforted in knowing that Oliver will be happy in his new home.
You are in my prayers. This can't be easy, but thank you for doing what is best.
Naomi
Its really hard cause we volunteer there. I really hope they understand. I'm afraid that they wont. :(Quote:
Originally posted by jenluckenbach
I am so terribly sorry things could not be worked out for Oliver. Taking a cat BACK to the shelter HAS to be the hardest thing to do. But don't beat yourself up, you tried REALLY hard!!!
When I was sitting with Micah last week, I was kind of testing the waters if it were to happen. The girl goes "You aren't going to bring him back, are you??" I know it was just one person, but still.
All that matters is what's best for him....
Thanks again guys. :)
I'm so sorry things did not work out with Oliver, Kelly. I think you are doing the right thing as well.
You are in my thoughts, best of luck to you.
{{{Hugs}}}
Oh Kelly, I'm so sorry things didn't work out with Oliver. I do not second guess your decision. I know it was a hard one to make.
My thoughts and prayers go out to you.
*hugs*
I'm so very sorry to hear this, what a tough decision for you to make! :(
But I think it's the right decision - for him, for the other cats in the household and for their humans. As sad as is it, we have to accept that some cats just are like that, and that they cannot handle other felines in their environment. I'm sure you tried everything you could and did your best to help him adjusting to the group, but he doesn't seem to be comfortable with that arrangement.
It's a heartbreaking decision and I'm not sure if I would have the strenght to decide that myself, but I'm sure you'll realize you did the right thing once Oliver has found a single-cat household where he's happy and pampered. Best wishes to all of you,
Kirsten
I'm sorry Oliver didn't work out with your furfamily but you are doing the right thing, making sure they are all happy.
You are doing right by Oliver. Instead of making him miserable, using drugs, and doing other things to make him fall into line, you are giving him a gift at great sacrifice to yourself.
I think all of us here at PT know how much you love your animals and that you giving Oliver up is not a failure, but a gesture of love.:)
*reaches for some kleenex* i couldn't have said it better!Quote:
Originally posted by Soledad
I think all of us here at PT know how much you love your animals and that you giving Oliver up is not a failure, but a gesture of love.:)
I am so sorry to hear that he has to go back and find a new home. I was hoping he would pull through and get used to the others! :(
Don't beat yourself up. We all know how much you love your babies, and that you're a great meowmie for just wanting the best for Oliver, even if it can't be with you.
Give him lots of hugs for us before he goes. *oh gosh, grabs more kleenex to dry my eyes some more* Our prayers are with you and him, and may he find a home soon so he won't have to stay cooped up for long!
If it's not working out for anyone in your house, then that's probably the best decision you can make, as heartbreaking as it is. You know your cats better than anyone and would know if the situation was irretrievable. It's very sad, but I know you'll work hard to find a more suitable home for Oliver and everyone will be happier in the long run.
Kelly, we all know what a considerate and caring individual you are! Just because someone 'might' say something in a negative tone because you have to return him doesn't take your caring spirit away! Remember that.
Also, you can't save everyone and everything, but you do what you can with the time and resources you are given. And your already doing a lot to help the feline cause!
I'm sure Oliver will find a furever one cat household. How could someone pass up that face??
;)
You are a good Mommy. The hardest thing to do is to let go, but it is for the best.
It's o.k. Kelly...
You want what is best for Oliver and I will be praying that the people at the shelter will be understanding... If only sometimes people could walk in our shoes before critizing us... And I am sure he will get a wonderful new forever home!!:)
Thank you, guys. Your kind words really help me feel better.