Mom1/Phred's L'il Sis here - I wanted to thank all of you for your kind words and memories of Phred. It has been good to hear about all the wonderful things that he is being remembered for. And I cherish his stories (or should I say, Cinder's!!!) that have been brought up in links. I know that our mother would have loved the Kildeer one!!! He was a gentle and caring man - and I'm sure he is organizing something up there!!!! I look forward to meeting those of you who are able to come to the funeral. I am hoping to be able to join the Memorial Day event next May that is being planned. Oh, here's Lulu (a gray exotic short hair) checking out what I'm saying!!! [tried to upload a picture of the Furkids but didn't get it - maybe next time.] Merry Christmas to all - this was a holiday that Phred looked forward to and always had some thoughtful (and usually pratical) goodies that he sent along. :love: from Lulu aand Mom1.