This has nothing to do with my move. It DOES have to do with my wedding gift to my nephew and his wife who have been married for 4 years now.
I gave him MY mother's (his grandmother's) dry sink. It has a copper lining and, okay, so it needs refinishing. He told me once his renovations to his house were done, he had the perfect place for it. When David's mother (My former sister-in-law) moved into her house, she put the dry sink in her garage. I had planned to refinish it but was too busy looking for jobs. I went to put boxes in there and found the dry sink shoved in a corner with all sorts of crap piled on top and in front of it.:mad To me, that was like shoving my mother in the corner.
I supposed I'm not in any kind of emotional state for this kind of thing, but I am angry as hell. I gave him my Dad's flag and dog tags for which he shoved up on a shelf and let collect dust, rather than getting a case for it. I told him I needed it back for a project I was doing. I bought a case for it and it's going to CT with me!!! It is QUITE obvious his family heritage means nothing to him or he would have proudly displayed it somewhere near my father's naval picture that I also copied for him. I thought he would have appreciated it seeing as he served in the armed forces.
I have decided that I'm taking the dry sink out of the garage and giving it to my friend Kathy, before I leave. They probably won't even notice it's gone. At least I know it'll be cared for and displayed by someone who appreciates fine, old furniture.
Thanks for listening.
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