Quote Originally Posted by mrspunkysmom View Post
The harder we push, the more she digs in. I wonder if we should encourage her instead or just be silent. And ignore her complaints.
Just be silent, IMO. Ignore her complaints, change the subject.

One good response to anything is to say just, "oh."

If she REALLY pushes her complaining, try something like, "Oh, you're a smart gal. You'll figure it out." Leave it at that.

Time to take away her audience.