Horrific News

**gini** · 06-09-2006, 11:16 AM

My heart goes out to you and your daughter because you have to face and deal with this horrible event.

But what I am reading encourages me so much - and that is YOU and how you are right beside your daughter every step of the way. My God, how does a 13 year old process all of this in her mind? No wonder she has a vacant look.

I truly do hope that the school has some counselling for all of the students.

But what your daughter needs as well is what you are giving her - solid support and lots and lots of love. It will be difficult - because as you are telling us she will go through many phases - laughter - tears - stone silence - it will be tough for you to see - and deal with.

Your daughter's life is valuable - she is very well loved - and what a tragedy her young friend did not know that about herself.

You have my prayers - and more prayers!

**Lori Jordan** · 06-09-2006, 12:45 PM

She is just having a tougher time than most she was talking to Alyse the night of they always called eachother at nine or so to say good night and Becca says she called and sounded fine she said she did not sound bubbly like she always does but she told Becca her and her mom has a fight and she said she would be fine and would see Becca on the bus in the morning and that was the last she spoke to her....I think that is what Becca is having such a hard time with at the moment she says to me this morning "Mama i did not get to tell her i loved her and never got to say good bye" its heartbreaking

**cyber-sibes** · 06-20-2006, 10:24 PM

How tragic, I will keep all of you in my prayers. When I was a kid, my best friend's brother hung himself, he was only 14. I don't think parents realize sometimes just how alienated a kid can get to feeling. I do hope you daughter will go for grief counseling and develope a support group with other friends, they need each other.

**joycenalex** · 06-21-2006, 07:18 AM

how is becca doing now? kindest thoughts, joyce

**Lori Jordan** · 06-21-2006, 08:17 AM

Alot better!!!!she had a school trip yesterday i went to go pic her up and she was happy and laughing,the girls are now up on all charges and were expelled from school Alyse left a note,which i did not know about till yesterday there is memorial pics of her also on her funeral site so becca wrote her a note and said her good byes she is still grieving she will never be over losing her best friend