This is a terribly selfish thing to do. My parents were in their 40's when I was born. It was not planned, BTW. Now, I am in my 30's, and my dad is 80 and my mom is 75. Before I turn 40, I'm sure I will be caring for my parents full-time. That is not fair. And it is also not fair that I will get to have them with me for only half my life, and my son will be extremely lucky if they see him graduate from high school. And this woman's situation is so much more extreme. She has started right off from day one as a bad mother, IMO.