My in-laws and their daughters HATE me. As the second wife, I am a horrible person, don't deserve the time of day. Regardless of the fact that my step kids adore me. That I get along exceedingly well with the ex. As it stands I am driving her to work tomorrow as her truck is in the shop. We have not had contact with my husbands parents for over 2 years now. We have explained this to his kids and they understand there is a "problem". I tried for 2 years to be nice to all of them but they finally showed their true colors - hypocrites. I feel bad for my husband having lost contact with his family, but I am so glad that he stands behind his second wife.