Thanks all for the LOL replies. Now I don't feel so embarrassed. But what amazed me is that tiger's gender was so obvious! Also that being nearly the same age as Zippy cat and Zebra cat, and yet didn't weigh near what either of those do. I should have caught her gender from her weight by her age. As you know a male weighs much more than a female even in the kitten stage. But regardless of her gender, she is a real blessing to have as a pet and has a much different personality than the others. And besides, she gets along with all of my furkids, no hissing or fighting.

.....wayne