I could say lots of awful things regarding your family Tonya - but everyone's beaten me to it.
Please, please, please don't knock yourself out worrying about them - it's too much stress for you and precious little Tyler - he needs a nice, calm and peaceful Mummy.
Either let the phone answering machine pick up or turn the phone off.
Couldn't your hubby have a word with them and tell them exactly what 'bed rest' means?

I have a friend who, when she was expecting her son was on 'complete bed rest' in hospital for the last three months - she couldn't even go to the bathroom! That is how seriously bed-rest should be taken.

Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers sweetheart - good luck xxxx

Lynne