Maybe I can also give you some insight from a single person. I have many acquaintences and friends that are both single and married with children. The relationships differ, of course, but one thing remains constant. I would be there for them if they needed me. With the married ones, I am friends with the husbands too, because, like you, they come as a package deal.

On the other hand, I have also been dumped by married couples because they are too busy in their own little world to let single people in and that's what disgusts me. One such couple actually made me feel like an outcast because I couldn't join in on the "baby conversations". Quite frankly, I'd rather discuss cat poo than baby poo.

I'm sorry that no one has shown up. You'd think at least they would call. That's really rude. If I could, I'd be there in a heartbeat.