Tonya,

Ya know what? I think it's VERY common when a woman either marries or gets a steady beau to kind of "forget" her friends. But the minute the love affair is over with, BANG, they're on the phone to you crying about what a cad the guy was. It's happened to me many times. I just try not to take it personally, although in your case, since you went to all that trouble of making a party, I think it was QUITE rude of them not to at least call you and RSVP. And I'd also let them know how angry and hurt you are. Their insensitivity amazes me.

I'm sorry they did that to you. It's just plain wrong.

((((((hugs)))))) to you!

Donna