Sorry for you loss. There is nothing like loosing a child.. I know, been there, done that. It is time the courts cracked down on the drunk drivers and he got a good sentence!

Oprah or Montel had a show one day when I was going through a horriable, horriable time. My best friend had been murdered and her son, a boy I watched grow up and loved was the one that did it. When that happened, I kept asking "WHY?", "WHY?." "WHY?".. If she had to die, why couldn't she have died in a car wreck? Why did both their lives have to be ruined and I had to loose BOTH of them and I kept asking HER, what am I suppose to do about Joseph? Am I suppose to turn my back on someone I watched grow up and love? Am I suppose to hate him? What am I suppose to do? I begged and begged for answers.

Then that show came on. It was about forgiveness after something like what happened to your daughter and what happned to my friend. The two things I got from that show was "We may NEVER know "WHY?"! We are not suppose to ask "WHY?" and how can WE be forgiven, if we can't forgive?

Our answers come to us in such strange ways but I sure got my answer and it has given me so much peace. I have let go of the worst thing that I have ever been through and I have not asked "WHY?" again. I still love Joseph, I feel like I have her approval now (because I know she loved him so much herself).
That show gave me acceptance and peace in my heart.