Pam I hang out in the DH sometimes and I know I'm quite "frank" about some things but I hope it's never taken as anything personal by ANYONE. Especially someone I've met and laughed with and share some very special memories with. I have a quote on my wall at work I try to close my eyes and repeat every day.. "those that anger you control you". Don't let that ever happen to you dear friend Pam. Please.