I think she'll have to be retrained to A) not go on the counters by hearing you say "NO" sternly or shaking the water bottle and B) how to interact with you in a playful setting.

You'll have to treat her like a scared kitten to get her used to you playing with her for fun. Have her come to you, using treats. Throw toys with bells so she'll chase them. Try bubbles, she may like that.

With time, she should realized play time is fun, not a scolding.